of this relation, could you please tell me?
Thanks for your help and advice!
2007-02-23 08:41:33 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I consider a 35 year age difference, a problem...
To him, you are old enough to be his daughter...so does that question the fact that this man may be a pedophile?
A pedophile is someone who likes much younger women...and they act out on that...
Im not saying he is...But that is not the normal..
Hun, find someone your own age...or close to it...
In 15 years you will be 38 years old..and trust me, Im 38, and I have never had a better "relationship" with a man...you will be in your prime...and he will be 73 and probably not alive, or unable to have sex.
Find someone you can grow old with, Not someone that is already old...
2007-02-23 08:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by ~Annette~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is more than old enough to be your father and that means you are of different generations. Most of his memories happened before you were born. You do not have common references I bet you do not know the musicians that he likes and he probably has not clue to the groups you like for one small example. He rememberd the 60;s while you could only have read about that very formative time. think again when you are 30 he will be 65. Are you ready to spend your late 30' early 40's as a caregiver. This is too much of an age disparity and he might be very happy with his fresh young wife, I do not think you are gonna feel the same way especially as time goes by.
2007-02-23 08:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself what you want and need from the relationship. You are a young woman. Do you want kids? Realistically, he probably doesn't. And if he does, seems unfair to have them with you when in all likelihood he will pass on and leave you to raise children alone. Just an example. But something to think about. If you were my daughter, I'd advise you to find yourself a younger man that has a better chance of living a long life with you.
2007-02-23 08:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to fall in love period . That is what happened you fell in love with the person not his age . Don't let anyone tell you he is to old for you , love him for him not his age . You cant help that you are more mature then most 23 yr. old women . GOOD LUCK in your relationship and remember even if he was 23 someone somewhere would still have a problem with it .
2007-02-23 08:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Me777 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know you can't be that stupid!! What is the real reason you want to be with him? What is the real reason he is with you? Does he buy you things or do you really already like old wrinkly balls, I doubt it!! He wants someone young to make him feel young and show boat around and act like he still gots it. I am sure you both since you are from different time periods cannot have too much in common other than he could be your grandfather or dad!! Is that what you are missing in your life and your are trying to make up for it.
2007-02-23 08:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Know It All 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is bad girl,
He might get 2 a point where
a stroke happens right n front of u,
& you'd have no clue what so ever
to do for him! Now that's plain trouble.
I've never dated a guy that much older
than me,I don't think you need to do that either!
-Mrs.Sarah Lynn Holt
2007-02-23 08:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only matters what you think of the age difference.. If your comfortable with it Rock on... But if your just going by what other people think than your going to have negative feedback ... All that matters if your man treats you right and he makes you smile and you enjoy his company than be with him... Don't worry about the "Good or the Bads" because all relationships have em...
2007-02-23 08:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by onlyin2it2enjoy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok if you love eachother and have thought about your future. When he is 70 and all out of sex and close to death you will be a young 35 yrold woman in your prime. I wouldnt do it. Does he have money or something you want?? Dont do it for money.
2007-02-23 08:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by ByouTfull 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're both adults from a very different time. This may be an issue if you want to get married or have children, but for a casual relationship, hey, why not?
2007-02-23 08:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd call it more than a dilemma. He should be ashamed. This is like child molestation. Seek counciling and see why you need a father figure in your life. Good Luck.
2007-02-23 08:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋