We started having sex the first week we were together. She stopped after that. Everytime i tried she always came up with a reason why she didn't want to. And now 3 weeks later she says she's not ready and thats why. Is she cheating already?
2007-02-23 08:38:25 · 34 answers · asked by James 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well part of it that confuses me is that she lives with me, will shower with me, wil crap in front of me but will hardly let me touch her.
2007-02-23 08:51:23 · update #1
No she isn't cheating.
Maybe she is depressed, maybe you haven't taken out the trash.
Maybe, just maybe she needed a place to stay and slept with you as payment.
Whatever the case is, you are a man and not a tile, Laying you properly the first time doesn't mean that she can walk all over you forever.
2007-02-23 09:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are controlled by their emotions. Just try and be nice to her and have fun together. Don't focus on the fact that you're not having sex (which is easy for a man to do). I think it's unlikely she's cheating on you. Assume she's telling the truth and is just not ready.Hopefully with time the sex will come.
2007-02-23 08:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kristina P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's lots of possibilities. She could be going through something too personal for her to be comfortable talking to you about it. A friend of mine had to have a hot wash done because she was having problems with her cycle & after it was done she couldn't have sex, take asprin, drink alcohol or even use tampons for like 6 weeks or something. She had just started dating this guy & didn't really feel too comfortable telling him why she couldn't have sex with him so she started avoiding him & making up excuses to not have sex. But then again it could just be that she's regretting going too fast too soon & now she's trying to slow things down. My opinion, just confront her about, be supportive & just ask why she doesn't want to have sex with you lately. The key thing to remember is to be supportive of her so that she feels comfortable telling you the truth about why she's not wanting to have sex.
2007-02-23 08:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her is a mature way and tell her you feel rejected. Be humble and ask her if there is a way you can please her better.I don't know if you may have the same prob that I have and I really don't mean this in a bragging way but I am larger and especially when I was younger. If you don't use it in the right way, you could hurt them. I was told it feels like you are stabbing them. So if it's a pain full experience for her, she might be avoiding for that reason.
2007-02-23 09:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes actually not ready, and she only did it the first week because she wanted you to like her and now she feels guilty and worries you might not really like her for herself.
What am I saying "maybe"!! Thats it dude!
Decide if you want a real relationship with her beyond sex. If you do, stick it out, she will be worth it, if not, find another slut for a fling
2007-02-23 08:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dittendorfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be feeling gulity for getting into sex so soon. Give her space, slow down. If she doesn't come around after a few weeks move on and don't rush the next relationship unless it is only about sex.
2007-02-23 08:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by georgiabanksmartin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means she's not ready to have sex with you. She tried it once and decided it wasn't worth the risk. Either respect her for it, or find a new girlfriend.
2007-02-23 08:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either she's cheating, she's not into the sex, or she just didn't feel right about doing it so soon in the first place. ASK HER! don't ask everyone else. she's the main focus of it and she's gonna have the answer.
2007-02-23 08:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by dr_mctwitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably realized that it was a mistake to rush into intimacy so early on in the relationship. if you really care about her just give her time, if you just want some booty then stop going out with her and get a ho.
2007-02-23 08:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By you asking if she is cheating is it like you are assuming that after some time she will.
2007-02-23 08:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by KOTEHOK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋