Jesus F@#king Christ....Long story short...I dated an ugly guy, had sex with him, no orgasm and now he thinks I am in love with him....He and I work in the same office building and I really can't just ignore him like he doesn't exist...Girls, how should I get out of this mess?? HELP!!! SOS!!!
2007-02-23 08:33:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How the hell did I get into (or date) this mess in the first place? Well, he has a great body, great personality and a great job.....I thought if he had all these good qualities intact, there's probably nothing serious I need to worry about...Man, was I wrong...For those who think I am shallow or rude, you have to admit your body also needs a good connection....not just your mind and soul....
2007-02-23 08:59:50 · update #1
Telling him that the relationship is not working the way you wanted and tell him that you would like to be friends! I wouldn't advice you to just tell him that he's uggly cause that could damage his self-steem (I don't know if you believe in karma, but what goes around, comes around!). Besides, you don't want to piss him off cause he might tell everyone else at work that you slept with him...well, then if he does, then tell everyone that he sucked in bed!
Good Luck!
2007-02-23 08:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you date an ugly guy? There's your first problem.
All nonsense aside you really have an easy way out of this. Tell him that you don't really feel comfortable dating someone you work with, but that you're fine with being friends. If possible, blame it on alcohol.
You should be fine.
2007-02-23 16:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be blunt with him. BE A B**** IF YOU HAVE TO!
Tell him "there is no way that the sex was any good, i didn't even orgasm. you are the ugliest man i have ever fooled around with and i don't want to have anything to do w. you" that's what i would say but i'm also the most blunt person you'll find.
2007-02-23 16:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by dr_mctwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and tell him nicely that he is a nice guy but that you feel things are not going to work about between the two of you. If he persists tell him that your ex boyfriend is back in town and you are getting back together with him.
2007-02-23 16:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are obviously incredibly shallow, just scream f*** off the next time you see him. That will make him get the messager, and why should you care what he or anyone else thinks, right?
2007-02-23 16:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dittendorfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the best way to remove a band aid?
2007-02-23 17:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Coyote81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Can either be a B**** or be nice about it... Tell him straight out this is not working out... If you keep leading him on its going to get worse and harder to get rid of him....
2007-02-23 16:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by onlyin2it2enjoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth that you are a shallow,cheap whore and you only wanted sex.
2007-02-23 16:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since your such a hot shot, you shouldn't have a problem to tell him you are not interested and to leave you alone.
Calling him ugly is just rude. :(
2007-02-23 16:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that you are dating someone and he will go away if that doesn't work then tell him that you don't him to be around you anymore
2007-02-23 16:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋