she doesn,t call me anymore or come around.she says shes not mad at me or anything . I told her it hurts me that we don't do much anymore and that i miss her.she said " I'm sorry i'm just busy i guess , But I'm not mad " I Call her but if i don't call her or go see her i don't hear from her. Should i keep calling or not?
2007-02-23 08:32:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's up to you sweetie. Chances are, you've been friends for a long time. As people get older, things change, people change and interests change too. Don't feel bad because she doesn't call you. If she says she is busy, how do you know she isn't? Chances are she is just trying to find herself. It doesn't mean that you have done anything wrong, or that she cares about you any less. Maybe she just needs some space right now. Don't take it personal. It's a girl thing.
2007-02-23 08:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend grow old and sometimes grow apart. When I was in high school, I had a lot of friends, now I'm 25 and I'm lucky I have one. My best friend and I barely speak anymore. Don't fret. She's growing up and so are you. People change and things change. Give her time and she will come around again. If not, she wasn't really a friend in the first place. Don't call her and bug her. Let her go. I know it's hard, but sometimes, it's the best thing that you can do.
2007-02-23 16:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by gothmomma_2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when your best friend isn't the same and wont return your calls, you need to go over her house and sit down with her and talk. Ask her if there is a problem that she is afraid to talk about and if there is something that you can do to help. If there is a problem with you and her, try to find the best way to resolve it. If she is really your best friend she will be more than willing to talk to you about what is going on with her.
2007-02-23 16:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by pr_nenachula06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying...some people are in you're life only for a season...
I had a best friend for almost 8 years....she changed but not for the better. She was doing things I didn't like. We grew apart...I moved on. Let her go...stopped calling her, stopped going out...just stopped. Things happen for a reason...just go with the flow...
2007-02-23 16:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the exact same position. I was best friends with a girl from the time we were 12 till my senior year in high school. Over the years though I started realizing that she started acting not like a best friend should. She was using me more to sneak around and be with her boyfriends. Like telling her mom she was spending the night with me and really staying at her boyfriends house. We agreed that whoever got our license and a car first we would pick one another up to go to school and she started ditching me at school and saying she forgot. I got more and more where I hated her and started to ignore her and hang out with other people. She didn't go back to school her senior year because she got pregnant and dropped out and didn't talk to her for like a year. I found out where her and her man were staying and tried to make things right. From there it got worse and worse. She never called me unless she wanted to borrow something. She would ask me if I wanted to go somewhere with her and then change her mind at the last minute. She basically started acting more and more like how her mom was and we had nothing in common anymore. She ended up cheating on her husband and she moved out and I haven't spoken to her since. When I have saw her in traffic she turns her nose up like she thinks she is too good to speak to me. Oh, well!! As you get older your priorities are going to change and the people who you thought were cool back in middle school or high school are really totally different people when real life sets in and you realize you don't have anything in common with them. So, be prepared to start meeting new people and making new friends!!
2007-02-23 16:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Know It All 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stop calling. Girl friendships can end for no good reason... who knows. I doubt you'll ever get the "real" reason. You're not happy like this, I think you should just stop calling her because you're doing all the chasing. If she wants your friendship she'll call you. Find someone who values your friendship more than she does.
2007-02-23 16:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes friends grow apart. It sounds like she has taken a different path. Stop calling and think of it as a part of growing up.
2007-02-23 16:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u tell her that she should call u for an exchange and u should try to find things to do so u r to busy for her to call u. then she might get a hint of what u r going through.
2007-02-23 16:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by Autumnkins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isn't in to u know more.when i found a knew interesting person,it didnt seem the same with my friend.it felt boring ,because i was introduced to funner stuff.she probaly feels the same.if she changes and u still want to be her friend then u can change to.or drop her and find a new,better friend.hope u turn out alright.
2007-02-23 16:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by Shaley A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you last hung out with her did you have fun? did it look like she had fun? think back to any time you might have said something insulting to her because sometimes people wont tell you what you did even if you ask but quite often people just change as they get older and go their seperate ways
2007-02-23 16:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋