We been together for like 6 years already, been together since freshmen high school. We love each so much. My girlfriend and me, and my friend was attending speech class. My friend setup a hidden camera in my bedroom and recorded everything that I did personally. I didn't see the camera. Unfortunately, when my girlfriend came over and made love with me, the camera recorded that. and now, my friend cropped the part where my girlfriend and I was busy making love. It was recorded last sunday (2-18-07). When my "friend" did his presentation, he did it normally until the last 10 minutes. He showed the video at my speech class right in front of everybody. Thankfully, the teacher stopped it after getting into 5 sec of video. The video was even uploaded at some p0rn website. and now, my girlfriend broke up with me since she think I was the one that told my friend to do it but I didn't say anything to my friend. My friend did that behind my back. What should I do? I love my girlfriend so much.
2007-02-23 08:30:56 · 22 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't told me friend to do that. My girlfriend doesn't believe me. How can I get revenge upon my friend and get back my girlfriend's heart? I love my girlfriend so much.
2007-02-23 08:31:49 · update #1
Wow - if this is true you have grounds for a lawsuit!
2007-02-23 08:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what your so called "friend" did is illegal. Invasion of privacy. You can sue that guy. In fact, before suing him, kick his A**. He definitely deserves it. Then, go to a counselor at the school and tell them what he did. You don't have to go into so much detail. He'll definitely get kicked out of your room. Maybe get kicked out of school. Turn him in to the authorities.
As for your girlfriend, first thing is to let the tension die down a little. Right now, she's embarrassed, pissed, and hurt. Give her a little bit of space right now.
Then, you have to sit her down and plead to her that you are telling the truth. Here's the question, when the video was shown, what was your reaction? Did you act like you weren't bothered by it? If it was me, I'd probably be knocking the crap out of this guy in the classroom.
Be sincere, calm, and be ready for her to yell. But, you need to keep your cool. There's nothing you can do to make her forget it. All you can do is lessen it.
2007-02-23 08:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you talk to your girlfriend, stop worrying about seeking revenge. Ask your friend to talk to your girlfriend. Get the assignment from your teacher and have her write down what happened during your friends presentation, you have to do anything in your power to get her back, because it's not looking good on your part....good luck
2007-02-23 08:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's not much of a friend now is he? GET HIM TO ADMIT THAT HE DID IT ON HIS OWN RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER! if she truly thinks that you let him do that, then there's no other way to get her back. she might not even believe him if he admits it tho. GOOD LUCK!
oh yeah and if she doesn't know that you would not do that to her after 6 years then she has problems.
2007-02-23 08:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by dr_mctwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop hanging out with your friend and tell your old girlfriend that you didn't have anything to do with it. Then show her how much you really care about her by taking her to a jewelry store and showing her how much you care by letting her pick something or get her something or taking her to a really fancy resturant and show her how much you really do care about her.
2007-02-23 08:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Catalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes, I would just explain to her that you don't want people seeing your love like that. That you don't want no man but you to see her. And tell her that your friend is a dirty dog and you hope what goes around comes around. If its meant to be, she will realize that it was not your fault and you would never want the love of your life exposed like that to the world.
2007-02-23 08:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with his mom. Videotape it and upload it to a website. Forget the girlfriend. There are soooo many girls out there, man.
2007-02-23 08:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could tell you some comforting but erm... all you can do is definitely sue his ****
And about your girlfriend.... well if she loved you she would've believed you... I reckon...
But I know your hurting Im just sorry I can't tell you anything comforting about your girlfriend
2007-02-23 08:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa... that guy sure isn't your friend. I think you should call the cops... this is a serious invasion of privacy. This is ridiculous. What your "friend" did is illegal. If you do call the cops i'm sure your gf will understand that you're serious.
2007-02-23 08:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, beat-up your friend or somthing do a serious prank then tell your gilfirend to ask your friend about the thing! then kiss her very fast and quick she will love you like crazy!!
2007-02-23 08:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by RiDa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok-BIG problem ...how old are you btw? you need to confront your friend with your girlfriend and make him testify that you didn't know about the camera....good luck...if she loves you so much-don't worry :)
2007-02-23 08:35:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋