I am so confused. me and my ex really like each other.but he has a gf. i texted him n told him how i feel and he feels the same so he asked me what do we do now. but i didnt think he still had a gf but he does so i'm confused on what to do.please help with serious answers.
2007-02-23 08:29:20 · 14 answers · asked by shymi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either he will dump the girlfriend and be with you, or he won't. It's not that complicated.
2007-02-23 08:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to give it some time. Obviously your ex is confused, since he is dating someone now, but still likes you. He jumped into his newest relationship too fast. Honestly it's best for you to keep your distance, let him figure it out, let him come to you. Keep in mind the reasons why you broke up in the first place... do you truly want him back? He sounds flaky to me. Make sure he isn't just playing with your mind.
2007-02-23 08:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is wait. If he really likes you he might break up with his gf. But if he likes his gf better then it would be best just to move on.
2007-02-23 08:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Things like this can get very confusing, I know. My advice to you, tell him that if he feels that strongly for you and not that strongly for his gf, to follow his heart. We go through a lot of relationships in our life times, so it wouldn't kill her if he broke up with her to be with the one he loved.
2007-02-23 08:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by gothmomma_2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him about the fact he has a gf and maybe he'll have the answer for you. If he's willing to give his gf up for you just go for it!!!!
2007-02-23 08:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't know when you told told him, but it's now up to him. He needs to decide. Otherwise if he stays with her thats not fair to either of you. Back off of a relationship as long as he's with her. If they break up... GO FOR IT!!!
2007-02-23 08:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to dump his gf and if he think of you better then his gf then he should go out with you! good luck
bye
2007-02-23 08:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by step-on-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wants to be with you he knows what he needs to do.. But in my opinion he's keeping you around dangling you on a string... So my advice loose him and when he's ready to come around he'll come around... Why waste your time with someone that's attached...
2007-02-23 08:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by onlyin2it2enjoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple, ask him if he wants to leave his G/F to be with you. If yes, great! If no, then at least you know.
Good Luck!
2007-02-23 08:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should walk away and find someone else. I'm sure you'll be glad you did.
2007-02-23 08:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by Harushnakarvikonivonich Hakopyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋