what does this mean? please help!?

Question

theres a girl i like, i really do think she is 'the one'. yeah girls like me all the time but ive been waiting for someone like this my entire life, im 16, but 3 or 4 years of dating is a long time of waiting. (she knows i told her, but she told me she already likes someone else) we talk a lot on myspace, but when i try to talk to her at school she just seems to blow me off and not care and act like im not there...is it because she likes someone else? if so what should i do should i back off or keep tryin to get her to like me?what does this mean?

Answer 1

lets say that she is playing a mind game with you, she teases, gives you some lie abt another guy, avoids you in person, but talks to you in private on mysapce.

thats what we call testing...see if you get jealous tjhat she says she likes someone else and how far will you go to win her attention.

get into that frame of mind:
1-she isnt the one, you are only 16...you got plenty of years and the rest of the world to find someone

2-find someone else that you like and work on her as well
if this "one" doesnt go well, you have someone else wiating for you...

3-she tests see how you will react by avoidance and jealousy, dont give her what she wants...she is expecting you to be a lost puppy that will do anything to win her...she can get that from anyone...dont satisfy her

4-treat her no more than a friend, hurts less if you dont expect a lot and get shot down

5-dont ever try to figure her out, no man can figure out women..any guy thats says they can is full of crap. dont try to figure on what of she likes me or not, she avoids you ...you avoid her....play the same game...once she sees that you cant be played, she will try to figure you out and then you got her....

Answer 2

Sounds like you need to leave her alone. Go find someone better. If she thinks she is to good for you than she has another thing coming.