She wants to marry me and I thought I wanted to marry her but at least from my point of view, the relationship seems to be treading on thin ice right now. She tells me that he looks as good as when they first met. She also tells me that he told her she was too fat and ugly for him. I don't understand why she still talks to him. Doesn't she owe me the courtesy of at least getting over her ex before she started with me?
2007-02-23 08:23:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing wrong with staying in contact with an ex, as long as she has assured you that it is over and there is nothing between her and him.
if you are going to marry her, you need to trust her if she says nothing is between them.
the only weird thing is that why is she telling you that he is still good looking. she shouldnt even be commenting that to you, why is she looking at him in that fashion?
if she gets all upset because of what her ex is telling her, remember you are the current model that she wants and its you that needs to assure that his words dont mean squat to yours.
so if he says shes ugly, compliment her...it should work, unless she stil feels something for him to get all sensitive.
2007-02-23 08:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 04:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probaly because he is the only real peson that actully knows her besides you. n she cant always tlk to you wen she needs help so she turns to someone else.
but then again she could like him still cuz she never really got completely over him. but i hoope its the 1st one. she just needs someone to tlk to.
n i dont see why she would like him if hes callin her fat n ugly?!
2007-02-23 08:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by yeekn0e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes talking to him alright and you need to talk to her about it. thats not the way to start a marriage
2007-02-23 08:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel
2007-02-23 08:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lostfairytale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋