my mom put me in fostercare because she wanted her boyfriend do you think she will ever come to her senses
2007-02-23 08:09:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my father left me when i was a baby and he gave this other man a chance at being a terrible father and i have tried to give my dad chance after chance but he ruines it with his hormone problems then i leave and forgive hima few months later then give him another shot at being my father but the same thing happens over and over and over again. my dad doesnt care caus if he did then he'd be over here trying to get me out of fostercare. I have no one not even my big sister im only 17 and she's letting me down. no one cares anymore only my class mates and teachers witch they're all older then me so i can see why they feel for me.
2007-02-23 08:33:06 · update #1
My mom used to choose her boyfriends over me and I never understood, I thought how could she choose her scum-bag boyfriend over her own daughter. Now that I am 33 I think about how desperate some women are to not grow old alone. They would do anything for a man because they're afraid of being alone. I don't know your moms reasons, but try to look at it as one of the challeges you were given in life and you will overcome this. I always say to myself when something bad happens "If this is the worst thing that happens to me today, this week, this year, whatever: I'm gonna be okay." Just keep forgivness in your heart for your Mom, one day this will all be behind you both.
2007-02-23 08:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Tawnya♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It' s really sad how parents don't realize how much they affect their kids. This also can affect you as a person when you become an adult. I don't know how I survived my childhood. There were many times I felt hopeless and wanted to just disappear. This will not last forever, although it feels like it. One day you will turn 18 and be able to live on your own. Start thinking about your future. I know I hated middle school through high school, but going to school and graduating is the best option for survival. Without it, a job can be difficult to get. You also should think about scholarship programs if you are planning on going to college. Plan ahead for yourself. I didn't go to college until after a while, it really helps to find a good paying job so you don't struggle. Be money smart. You are important because maybe one day you will have a relationship and kids. I left my parents old gloomy house where I held very hurtful memories. This isn't your life, you can make it so much better. Just know it doesn't last forever, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Stay in school what ever you do. Finish ALL of it. ; )
2016-05-24 03:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. I hope she comes to her senses.
I am a Mother, and I just cannot imagine doing that.
Can you put your child in foster care for that and that alone. Doesn't sound right somehow.Where is your Father ??
A parent is suppose to be responsible for their children till at least age 18 unless the courts determine otherwise. The reason you are telling us is not a legitimate reason,in my opinion. Why don't you edit your question and explain more.??~~~~~Jill
2007-02-23 08:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom chose a guy over you then not only is she not a loving mother but the guy who allowed it to happen and not care enough about your mom to want her to do the right thing is a peice too. I hope someone gives you the love that you deserve. Be strong and try to be positve. You will be better off
2007-02-23 08:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by short_chic_1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your mom's thinking. But I think you should talk to her if you get a chance. Even the results might not be great at least tell her how you feel. If she turns you down you at least know how she truly feels about you. You probably would feel sad. But maybe there's a family out there that you belong in.
Good Luck!
I'll be praying for you!
2007-02-23 09:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sakura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for what you are going through. Some people are to immature to have kids. I hope that this will help to make you a better person by not being the way they are because when it comes down to it you are responsible for you and your actions. I wish you luck in your life and don't let these people bring you down. You make your path in life.
2007-02-23 08:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its very sad when people leave their children just cuase i can only hope and pray that she will come to her senses and realize that she has a wonderful gift from god out there waiting on her, but if dhe dosent then you realize that you were better off without and you will find someone who will love you and you will be their blessing i think your very special for being so strong and remeber when you are down to nothing god is up to something- everything in life happens for a reason, take care and you are in my prayers
2007-02-23 08:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go to school hunny and do your best. Right now school support is the best. go to your Counsolor and ask them to help you. go to school and become someone better then them. dont let a guy get in there though because he will bring all your dreams down. do something great for your self.
2007-02-23 08:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by kuhilanigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mother and I can't imagine doing that to mine.
Good luck at finguring her out. See is selfish. Can I swat her? She doesn't see the blessing right in front of her face, you.
Pray.
2007-02-23 08:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by Momwithaheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but I have to believe that you are better off now than you would be with a mother who puts her bf before her child.
2007-02-23 08:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋