When we are alone, he'll say things like " eff u, beyotch". I've told my parents, and the talk to him, but he keeps doing it. Mostly, its only when its just the two of us. This kind of language really hurts me, but my brother is acting so casual about it. I don't think he hangs out with bad kids. I think its HIM that rubs off onhis friends. How can I make him stop?
2007-02-23 08:08:21 · 7 answers · asked by karate kicka girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i honestly can NOT stand it hes going" EFF! EFF! EFFFFFF!" "SHUT UP SH*T FACE"
2007-02-23 08:28:51 · update #1
Im 13 to and hav the same problem with my brother what i do is get out my cell phone say something to him that will make him cuss and then ht the record button works every time then let your parents listen to it. He always in trouble. that is so funny my brother is ten too how weird if u ever wanna chat email me
2007-02-23 08:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by kalynmarie12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
odds are, you won't be able to make him stop. that is your parents job anyway. what you can do is walk away. as difficult as it is (and i know it),stay out of the fight. have you ever heard the saying-bad attention is better than no attention? i'll bet he's trying to get your attention and he doesn't care how he gets it. he also doesn't care how it makes you feel as long as he gets what he wants. he knows it ticks you off and when you try to stop it or make a fuss, you give him what he wants. give him no attention for a while. see what he does. no doubt he'll try to tell on you about something stupid but don't give in. it may take a while but he'll get the point. good luck
2007-02-23 08:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are unaware, tell your parents. Otherwise just ignore him. he is using the words for shock value and to fit in with his friends. Remind him that you do not like him talking to you in that manner and then ignore him when he does it. As long as he can get a big reaction he will continue with this
2007-02-23 08:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. Don't give any reaction. Act like it's normal, and he'll get bored with it.
2007-02-23 08:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join in and then he will get mad and try something new or just say I LOVE YOU TOO everytime hes says anything to you. I did it to my lil bro now were cool.
2007-02-23 08:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by kuhilanigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him to cuss leave himto have fun!!!! CUSSING IS AWESOME
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Make your parents takeaway stuff that he likes like computer,phone whateever.
2007-02-23 08:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him if he's angry every time he swears.
2007-02-23 08:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋