If you were a child?

Question

If you were a child, and if parents weren't their for you when you needed it and their was alot of fighting between your mom and dad, then they would start beating you and hurting you until you bleed, how would you deal with it.. I know that it's wrong, but this is what my parents did and still did and still do to me, i can't handle this stuff anymore they took 1 of my daughters away from me, and then when i called the police on him he tried to act inasent, plz i need your help i can't handle it anymore... thanx for all the help people.

I'm only 19 but this is happening so fast they treat me like a little kid (I have 2 children) on one i was raped by my father and the other man that i am not with anymore, i just want this crazyness to stop plz help me!

Answer 1

You need to go for help. They had no right to take your child away from you. You need to get out for your sake and theirs. Your child could end up going through the same thing if not worse.

You need to file an assult, child buritality, or child abuse charge. I am sure that you are likely to have physical evidence of abuse and if doctors did an exam on you, they could show the results maybe tiny fractures or something like that.

You shouldn't have to put up with any of that. As a parent they are supposed to protect you not hurt or harm you. You need to do it quickly, assuming you are younger than 18, they get a harsher ruling when the assult is against a minor. When you turn 18 there is little that you can do.

You should try talking to another relative, neighbor, teacher or counselor. If anything if they start hitting you get out of the house, and take your child with you. Go to a hospital, they can take care of you. They will end up calling child services and you and your child will most likely be placed in a foster home, some foster homes are just as bad as the ones that you live in no, but it is also possible (more so than not) for you to be put into a nice foster home that will care for you.

By staying there you are risking your life and your child's. You are also risking your health. Things like this leave physical scarring, mental, and emotional damage.

Go for help. You don't want to endanger yourself more than you alredy have. I know the police have ignored you the first time, but be persistant, then they know they have to do something if you keep coming back...just keep trying. If they fail to get you help, you may also be able to sue them some how for neglecting to take on a case as severe as yours, technically risking your life even more.

Answer 2

I am not a physician but I do know enough to tell you to call for help. There are plenty of womens centers (check the white or yellow pages) in your area that offer help for free. If all else fails pick up the phone and call "0" for the operator. I worked for many years at the phone company and know for a fact that the ladies there often helped find or suggest help at times like this.

YOU CAN break the cycle your parents (and probably theirs) have added you to. We learn from our parents how to treat our children - ask yourself if this is what you want your children to become? Take the first step and the rest of the path will fall into place as you need it (the first step is the hardest - if you can do that, you can accomplish anything ). You can do it!

Answer 3

Can you afford an attorney? Is there a low cost attorney system in your area? You could also call your State Attorneys office, to see if one can hlep you pro bono if you can't afford one. Or, if there is an attorney in your area that will do a free half hour consultation-that would help too. Please, call CPS to help get you (if you are under 18) and any other children out of that home ASAP. Is there a Center For Battered Women in your area? You could stay in their confidential location shelter, or maybe a motel for 30 days or so. And go from there to somewhere else. Call the cops too, again, and let them know CPS needs to truly be involved in this matter. Let them know what has happened to you. Ask them for the help you need-to get out of there. I wish you the best. Take care.

Answer 4

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I'm not really sure how I would handle a situation like that. The best I can say is to try to call the police again or call CPS. Even if you don't get your daughter back, they'll at least make sure that shes being cared for properly. Sorry I couldnt help out more. Hope everything works out for you.

Answer 5

Go to your local Magristrate's office and explain to him what is going on. Maybe you can get some type of a restraining order. Abuse is NOT accepted-physical or emotional. Your parents are the ones that need the help YESTERDAY. What is this teaching your daughter? What has it taught you. If you have a Woman's Resource Center nearby, they can be of great help as well. It breaks my heart to hear your story, but don't ever give up...there is always hope!

Answer 6

God help you. No person on this earth deserves to go through this. You are now 19 years old, and of legal age to LEAVE IMMEDIATELY. Contact your local Battered Woman's Program TODAY. There are many resources available to you including possibly getting your oldest child back. Calling the police doesn't always work because they do their best to stay out of domestic disputes of any kind. The Battered Women's Program will be able to assist you in affordable housing, job placement, education, counseling, and anything else needed to care for you and your children. They will also assist in ensuring that your parents will never have the opportunity to do this to you or your children again.
I know you are scared and confused, but you have to stand strong and have faith that you will make it through. There are people out there to help, but you have to seek it. Don't get discouraged and believe that you are stuck in this situation. You're not. Get out of it now.

Answer 7

I had parents very much like yours. Only I think mine were worse. But what you should do is move away from them and don't have anything to do with them. And move a long ways away. Go to a different state.

Answer 8

you could try court, or you could just take your children and RUN they don't need to know these people that can phisically and sexually abuse a child. after you get your kids and yourself far away from them, then i would seek a lawyer and try to get a restraining order on them. that way of they try to find you and take your children again, you can have them arrested! i am soo sorry for your situation i'll pray for you!