This girl is 18 I am going to see her in the summer. She lives in England. She was here a month and I like her alot. She wanted me there when she left and she hugged and kissed me goodbye and said see you in the summer. I was thinking about what would happen when I se her in the summer. Here are some of the situations that could happen and tell me to do in each: She is very happy to see me and hugs me and says she missed me alot, She says hi and we dont talk too much. What should I do in each situation. When she was here we had alot of fun together and she mentioned alot about things that will happen in the summer when she sees me again. What do you think?
2007-02-23 07:51:45 · 6 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok if your going to see her in the summer and she agrees with that arrangement, I don't see why she will just say hi and dont talk too much to you..but if she does, then you still go out and enjoy yourself, it's not often ppl get to go to England for a summer....life's too short. But if you go and She is very happy to see you and hugs you and says she misses you alot, then you hug and tell her that you miss her alot also and enjoy your summer...trust me whatever happens, your next move will come naturally
2007-02-23 07:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey why don't you e mail/ chat with her her? Try to keep the communication going with her until she comes back this summer. You could casually mention some places that you would like to take her when she gets here. This way you can make the most out of your time together. It is also easier to get that small talk out of the way without having to make eye contact. By the time you see each other you will have become familiar with one another. Good Luck.
2007-02-23 07:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's happy to you - I don't see any problems there.
She doesn't have much to say - just realize that it's been a little while since you've seen each other and things have tendacy to change over time. Just break the ice by asking her to give you a tour of England. You could ask her to show you her favorite spots, etc.
2007-02-23 07:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot micromanage this meeting. You just need to see what happend and go with whatever you feel to do at the time. If she huggs you hug her back in a friendly way. Let her give you the cues and you just be yourself and act naturally.
2007-02-23 07:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two possible outcomes to this situation: 1.she likes you,you like her,and everything is well...and you discover your feelings-the both of you,or 2. she doesn't like you,she was just being friendly with all that kissing/huggind/goodbies,etc.she just broke-up with her bf or something,and that's why she was being so "friendly"...or she forgot about you...or something....or as you say"you won't talk much"-maybe she likes you,but is in a bad mood,or doesn't want to begin a relationship as difficult as this would be....SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED....in any of the cases mentioned above,you should talk as much as you can with her,but not annoy her if she doesn't wanna talk,if she is cold,be casual,be "cool";)),pay attention to her signals,and see how she feels....DIRRECT questions TO BE AVOIDED!
2007-02-23 08:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience you cannot plan for every eventuality. It would surely be better and more natural to let whatever happens happen.
2007-02-23 07:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋