there's a guy that i have known a few years. we met at church and he is the total package - good looking, sweet, funny, religious, has a great family, a job and a house. we are both in our 20's and he is 5 years older than me. our birthdays are even a day apart. we have always gotten along great. the problem is this, every time we get together, he seems to be distant for about a month or so, then he comes back around like nothing ever happened and we pick back up where we left off. on the start, he asked me out and i gave him my number after church to call and set the date up, but he never called. i am kinda old fashioned and let the man take the lead. i saw him every wednesday and sunday at church and he still flirted w/me and wanted me to sit w/him, but never mentioned the date. eventually, he asked me over to show me his new place and the night was perfect. he was definitely interested in me. but after that nigt, he didnt talk to me at church so much and would avoid me and leave.
2007-02-23 07:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he did this for awhile, then he came back around and built right up to where we left off. couple months later i went over again, same thing. i knew he didnt have a g.f. eventully, i stopped going to that church to avoid him. for about 2 years he was w/ someone else and i was too. i started back there again when we all broke up and he asked me out again. i went over, he cooked for me and we watched a movie. we almost slept togther but didnt. the next weekend he blew me off and didnt come to church. i was fed up ! now he is back flirting and trying to get with me again. what is his deal ??!! i cant seem to figure it out. he is almost 30. i need to get over this or be with him ?? help please
2007-02-23 07:53:33 · update #1
Dump his sorry a.s.s. He's taking advantage of your feelings for him. Obviously you are good enough to satisfy him when he needs but not good enough to have all the time. Take a hint.... Get A Life!!!
2007-02-23 07:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Slim Shady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may be scared for a number of different reasons he may want to start things off but is afraid of what people may think or he may have another girl you don't know about it can be anything you should just ask him don't be to aggresssive as a christian women myself that is not are style but you should say something let him know that it is not okay to say but not do and to ignore after a evening together , it also may not be anything guys don't always notice when they do things if this doesnt work then move on it is not like you guys have been sexuall or anything
2007-02-23 07:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he already has a girlfriend. maybe not...
2007-02-23 07:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn men! i hate them all.. lol sorry, their more confusing than women.
2007-02-23 07:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋