okay well there is this boy at my new school and he always hugs me like 4 times a day. i like him and asked him out but he said he already has a girlfriend. but he likes me. i really want to go out with him becasue i like him and he is sweeet. I dont really get many boyfirnds and this might be a good nice one. it is impossible to find someone who likes me because i am a little overweight so what do i do??????
2007-02-23 07:37:35 · 19 answers · asked by bandsrule28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would highly suggest that you continue to be his friend. It doesn't hurt to get to know someone better before getting into a relationship. Who knows?! You don't want to be the girlfriend in this situation. She has no idea that he likes someone else. Let him work this one out on his own, while you continue to be a good friend. If it's meant to be then it will happen on it's own time.
2007-02-23 07:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by dala_o_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's nothing wrong with at least staying his friend even though he has a girlfriend and even if you two don't end up dating. It sounds like he genuinely likes you as a person, even if he and you never end up being boyfriend and girlfriend. You can never have too many friends in life, especially ones that like YOU for YOU. Chances are, he won't be with his girlfriend for too long if he wants to date other people (especially if hes flirting with you), so if they arent serious you probably do have a chance. Just dont make a move while he is dating someone else. If he likes you, he will let you know.
2007-02-23 15:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by rantfactory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait her out...it sounds like you just need to wait for the other girlfriend to disappear...and she will..that's how relationships work in school. Best friends make the best relationships...so get to know him, spend time with him, and give him a reason to be with you. It's okay if you're a little chubby...unfortunately I was in high school too, and I didn't have a really serious guy until I was in college...so hang in there...I now have a good looking successful engineer as a hubby,,,you'll get there!
2007-02-23 15:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by claireandmouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave him alone because he has a girlfriend. If he really likes you he will finish with her before starting something new. In the meantime if your weight is affecting your self-esteem you could maybe try to lose some weight.
2007-02-23 15:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is hugging you to check the size nothing else. are you crazy to long for a bf who is not serious about you. if you try to go ot with him, he may sleep with you and then make fun of you or forget you.
CAREFUL - save your feminity. being overweight doesnot make you unfit. it shows your good health. sudy well and you will find a good boy soon. do not jump and hit the bump. haste makes waste, hurry makes worry.
2007-02-23 15:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by sri577201 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you think he is a really nice guy but if he has a girlfriend already it just isn't proper.
Even though he might be a really nice guy its still not right.
2007-02-23 15:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by kuklitsa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has a g/f then stay away as that's problems. Anyway you don't need someone that flirts with others .Try joining a gym you might meet someone there just a thought.
2007-02-23 15:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, who whould you be happier with.
Also, if ur a little over weight u should get some exercise.
<3 Lillith
2007-02-23 15:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this..... but if he already has a gf then you might be history..... anyway, why do girl's think they have 2 date alot of guys.... you still can be friends
2007-02-23 15:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have the same problem and i know how you feel. just want to let you know that you're not alone in this cruel world and believe me you will find someone cause i did.
- Good luck -
2007-02-23 15:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by sexylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋