i met him at work 3,4 years ago.but just 6 months ago he began noticeing me, i mean we spoke before but just small-talk.he began staring at me , or was nervous around me.this is nice but the only thing that bothers me is that we are to diffrent.i lisen to classsic music he hard rock, i like relaxing hobbies he likes parties and drinking.......
we simply do not fit. i do not know how to behaive anymore.need an advice
,now things got complicated, i behaived pretty uninterested,perhaps i little to harsch and he is upset now.we pass each other and don,t talk anymore,just ignore,but the reality is that he still care and perhaps me too.....i do not like this situation.and talking about this is tabu, because he didn,t say into my face that he likes me
so confused..help
2007-02-23 07:36:32 · 6 answers · asked by miranda e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your grammar is poor
Sorry
2007-02-23 07:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? Just because you have differences in music ect, doesnt mean that it cant work out. When 2 people come together in a relationship they both bring differences, and that brings spice. I'm more of a conservative, and my boyfriend is definately more edgy than I am. You just have to learn to respect eachother's differences, and be open to change. And how to behave? You really need to just be yourself and let things happen. If you dont stress out about it things will come as they should. Be honest with yourself, and with your feelings. I dont know if you both want a relationship together or not, but I dont think you need ot know right now. Just be friendly with eachother and see where it takes you. I really hope this helped, Good luck :0)
2007-02-23 15:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by shelb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not start a work relationship it just creates more problems that you definitely don't need. You should talk to him and tell him that you had some issues going on in your life and that's why you were acting upset to everyone. Keep him as a friend and if he really cares for you then he will forgive you and start talking to you again.
2007-02-23 15:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say Opposites attract* (You liking classical music and him liking Rock...you like relaxing hobbies he likes to party and drink) Not sure if you should be getting involved with someone who just loves to party and drink. People can have alot of FUN without having to drink*
Sounds like you both have a bit of an interest in each other...so you can either explore that...see where it leads....or ignore it..and move on. I would ignore it and move on*
2007-02-23 15:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. If he didn't say it "to your face", he is not THAT interested. He's upset before he even asked you out? He sounds like a "drama queen" to me. Plus, you're not even compatible, you said it yourself. Do yourself a favor, and find another guy.
2007-02-23 15:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart
even though it's on your left
it's always right
2007-02-23 15:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋