Guy trouple please help!!! I like this guy who goes to my school and my parents know his father and mother b/c my brother is in the same boy scout Troop as the guy that i like. but that is not my problem. My best friend has known him since elementary school and went out with him for a day (long story and don't have that many letters, but if you want to know then ask me and i will tell you) , i asked her a question about him b/c i knew him and she said she was like do you like him or something i was like mabey/ mabey not, and she was like that means yes , and i did not want to tell her that i do like him b/c i am afraid of what will happen next and i don't know if knows me or if he like me but we ride buses that are right next to each other and acasionally wave at each but all we can do is look at each other b/c my guess is that neither one of us wants to say hi or make the first move, What should i do, if you were in my posistion what would u do??
2007-02-23 07:34:12 · 17 answers · asked by lblondie15 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No i am not going to tell my brother this and him get all up in my Buissness
2007-02-23 07:39:27 · update #1
one problem about asking him it is my parents they have strict rules on when i can date!!
2007-02-23 07:41:00 · update #2
We do not have the same lunch or any of the same classes!!
2007-02-23 07:47:29 · update #3
Waving and looking started it.
Talk now...smiles help too. (slow and easy)
2007-02-23 07:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PARENT SITUATION: By being on "group dates" it's not really dating. I have the same situation, my parents don't want me to date guys seriously, so I respect that, but I make it so it's a compromise. Group dates are fun, and are dating, but it's also not a very serious dating situation. Talk to your parents about what options you have, trust me, they'll love the group dating idea!
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First off, relax and take a deep breath.
Become friends with the guy, on a dating basis. Set up a group date with your friends (like two to three couples) and go on a no-pressure date with him. Make it a fun date with an activity that lets you talk with him (restaurant you are eating/movie you are watching) you want an activity like going to a sports game, or going to play something in a park, but make it a group activity that will make him "your date" but not on a serious level.
Then once you make that "date" connection with him, he will realize that you like him. That will ease the tension between you two. Ask him to a school dance, again go with a group so it's not pressuring, but also a formal dance so it's like a big deal when you ask him. Oh, and make a big deal when you ask him to a dance, like something creative. What I did was have a huge box, then a box within that huge box, box within that box, and a tiny box within that box. To fill up the boxes use up balloons or something, but in the smallest box (the last several of boxes were coated in duck tape which made it hard to open) put the question of asking him to the dance. Or what I did was "Go check your mailbox" and on his mailbox I put an envelope with the question.
Take tiny steps in the right direction. He may even ask you on a date, then you will start going through the "dating" phase to see if you like one another. Once that is over you can decide whether you two like each other enough to make a serious relationship.
As for your best friend, ask her what things he likes, if she knows anything about him, and etc, be honest with her if you know she can keep it a secret and use her to carry your burden/plan your dates, etc.
It will be fun if you make it that way!
2007-02-23 15:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by natalia j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell your friend who went out with him for a day that you like him until something happens first. You've gotta just get some courage and say hi to him when he's alone. You will be able to tell if he likes you by what happens next. Then who knows, maybe he will want to call you. Be confident and brave but don't go overboard and ask him out right away or anything. You have to see how he acts around you first. Good luck!
2007-02-23 15:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by mary25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be totally needy. Bug him constantly and buy his love. No...No... Just kidding... Have a friend tell him how you feel about him. That way, you don't have to deal with the straight fact rejection (should that happen) and if he likes you back, well, then ask him to sit with you at lunch or something like that. Something small.
2007-02-23 15:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you like him and would like to get to know him better but also tell him about your parents rules, and maybe you guys could just hang out until you're able to date and not break your parents rules. See how your parents feel about him, because if they like him they may bend the rules a little.
2007-02-23 15:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Philly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him say hey, whats up, how have you been. If he is into answering you and chatting then he is interested and you can go from there. If he just says fine and walks off, then I would probably move on to the next one. Not sure what to do about that girl though.
2007-02-23 15:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you haave to go up to him and say yhi then have some one ask him if he likes you or knows who u r. then if he says yes talk to more start convos with him and dont let ur friend stand in ur way of happiness if she was ur rly friend she wouldnt care she only went out wit him for a day. then take it from there invite him some where. tootles
2007-02-23 15:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by namwj120 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all one of you is going to have to give in and say hello! if you like him just tell him, his response may surprise you. he may just be nervous about speaking to you, because he is also afraid he will be rejected.hope this helps!
2007-02-23 15:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by misty s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best friend most likely wants to help, not ruin everything. that's the difference between a friend and a best friend. a best friend you can trust not to tell. you should talk to him though, that would get things moving....
2007-02-23 15:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by Trombone_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start to talk to him properly first. Get to know him more then the relationship can go further.
2007-02-23 15:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lil' Billz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋