how do u be nice to not hurt its feelings
2007-02-23 07:34:00 · 10 answers · asked by Lidia J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first think about the real reason of why you want to break up with them, then just tell them how it is dont use an angry tone but more of a sympathetic tone, if they like you alot they will most liekly go through the 5 stages of grief which are denial anger bargaining depression and then acceptance, it could take a long time to go through this if you leave them guessing on why you broke up wiht them so tell it straight and nicely, also if you want to break up wiht them for a reason thats not very good then dont even think about it cuz it will come back to haunt you, the hardest part of it is the few moments of right before you say it, also dont do it online or tell your friend to break up with them doesnt matter who they are they will hate that and feel even worse about it so tell them in person or if they live along way away on the phone, but the key is honesty and sympathy thats about it, and thats my input on that
2007-02-23 07:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by thirteendk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with someone's not easy (in fact there's a song devoted to that fact). The sad thing is, if there's really feelings involved here, you can't avoid hurting his their feelings. They like you and it's going to hurt knowing you don't return those feelings. Just be honest with them and let them know that you've tried to make it work, but the (romantic) feelings just aren't there.
2007-02-23 15:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I am in the same boat my ex will not stop calling me and I dont want to hurt his feelings but sometimes there is no other way . Tell him /her that you dont want to be in a relationship with them any longer but you wish to remain friends . You can take it a step further and explain the reason /s that you feel this way .
Take care
2007-02-23 15:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him that you just see him as a friend and you just don't feel the same. Tell him he is a nice guy and bring his self-esteem up and say that there will be someone else who likes him for who he is. (Kinda even out the "rejection.") You just don't feel the same way.
Also mention that you had great times and don't regret a single moment with him.
2007-02-23 15:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me just say hey we tryed but it isnt working before we kill each other lets just stop for now and look at whats going on and if still dosent work well we just have to move on
2007-02-23 15:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them the truth and just say how u feel
2007-02-23 15:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the truth..No way to getw around that
2007-02-23 15:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by BLahBlah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest... tell them how you feel... i mean no matter what you're going to hurt them
2007-02-23 15:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by chrissy23w15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys deserves pain
2007-02-23 15:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by stunning.sheena 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest with him
that's all
2007-02-23 15:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋