I dont understand why men like fake women that put on an act when they first meet. I am always myself and they go for the fake game playing women. BTW my looks are not an issue, that i know.
I will not be someone im not.
2007-02-23 07:25:27 · 31 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~Insecurity
2007-02-23 07:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kitten2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do not respect or "like" women who are fake and/or put on an act. It may seem like they do because they show them a lot of attention or go home with them or date for a little while but trust me, men don't take women like that seriously (at least the ones who KNOW women are putting on). Men like a woman who gives off the impression that "What you see is what you get." That way, there are no surprises, everything is out on the table, and nothing to worry about. Sure there are a few things that pop up in any relationship but fake women are way too risky. Besides, if there are men out there who like these women better than they like honest women, they're not worth it to begin with.
2007-02-23 07:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, this is a sad question I've heard asked many times. The real answer, I believe, is that not all men like fake women that put on an act... only fake men like that kind of thing, or stupid ones.
A real man knows the difference between a girl and a woman. A girl plays games and puts on acts to attract men. A woman is reserved and knows how to hold a serious conversation and joke around in EQUAL MEASURE.
Please continue being yourself, but, be aware that guys that look fake (dress nice all the time, are super proud of their bodies or are loud in public for attention), are probably only going to be interested in girls of their caliber.
Good luck to you, and I hope this helped!
2007-02-23 07:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to know just what you mean when you say they're putting on an act and a fake game. However, it's not a good idea to completely be yourself in front of a guy either when you first meet. That's not to say that you have to be phony, but if you hate your roommate don't talk about it when you meet a guy. If you're having a root canal, that's nothing to share either. If you think your aunt is addicted to amphetamines, save it for later. Much later. I would venture to say that most women are just trying to put their best foot forward and not sharing everything right off the bat. Being yourself is what any guy worth having would want from you, but ask yourself if you're being TOO MUCH of yourself too early. There's a HUGE difference b/n being honest and not knowing when to keep your mouth shut (not that that applies to you). You've got to realize that there's a "breaking in" period when you meet a guy. Being yourself means exhibiting those qualities you most like about yourself but it doesn't mean saying "...and besides being thoughtful and honest, I have a nail fungus, I refuse to floss, my brother is transgender and I eat flour straight out of the bag so here I am, upfront and honest."
2007-02-23 07:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by SteveB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that, and the one's that are, will be sorely disappointed when they get to know the fake woman, and see that everything they liked in the beginning is all a sham. The real problem is that there are some people, men and women who are so good at being fake, you know realize it until it's too late. In my case, it took me 8 years to realize how fake a girls was. Fool me once, shame on me, fool me twice, shame on you. I was outta there.
2007-02-23 07:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Society Dweller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you must be talking to fake men cause a good man wants an honest women. and usually fake women put a show and let the guy have sex the first time they meet
2007-02-23 07:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by sandy s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've got to say this you are 100% right. I mean men are mostly to act that way but I think you are better than the "acting girls" I mean you have the right thing and you are natural. I mean that is the good thing. Any ways I am a guy my self and well I like a true girl. not the fake one.
2007-02-23 07:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this type of men are the dumb men. This can act as a signal to you, that a guy like that is not worth much. If he is so stupid not to realize when a girl is a fake, then let him smash his face. This gives you the chance to look out for a witty, smart guy who is actually using his brain and is worthy of your attention.
2007-02-23 07:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, be happy with who you are and who you want to become. Perhaps allot of guys can't tell the difference between a fake and someone who is honest. The fake is sort of like sugar, real fun and sweet for awhile, but if all you ate was sugar one would probably die of malnutrition if not obesity and/or diabetes. Good luck on being what you want to be like to be.
2007-02-23 07:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by dumb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel men who are wanting fake women are those who are fake themself.
I think if you find a man or woman showing their true self, it may be hard to accept them at first. But I think it is a quality that many people are looking for and that is truth.
I wouldn't wirry about men looking for fake women.
I would worry more about yourself and finding what you want, not artifical crap from fake men!
2007-02-23 07:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only fake men are this way. Find a real man.
Relationships require some give and take. You may have to adjust yourself a bit to make room for someone else.
2007-02-23 07:27:23 · answer #11 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋