I have been seeing this guy for two years and he great but lately the only thing he wants to do is stay at me place or his it's like he doesn't want to be seen with me or something and he seems so bored lately I want to go out he doesn't what should I do? is it me or something more?
2007-02-23 07:22:32 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. its not you. you have to understand that after 2 years you feel pretty comfortable in your relationship and maybe by not wanting to go out he's telling you that he's ready to settle down. Dont think that theres something wrong with you because there snt and you know when men feel comfortable and are in love they dont feel like they need to go out or be as exciting they just want to chill.
2007-02-23 07:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by ~*BabyGirlpinky06*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...ask him to go out with you tonight hun. If he says no...go out with some friends and without him. I guarantee he'll get your message darling eventually....otherwise just ask him why he doesn't wanna go out anymore? Maybe he's short on funds...and is embarrassed to say so...who knows? You'll never know anything until you ask him reasonably. Maybe he has some security reasons for not being out in public. Sounds funny I'm sure...but you wouldn't believe how many people walking around suffer from certain anxiety issues truly. Ask him if he loves you too. This will usually spark some interesting conversation. If it's a defensive conversation?....that'll be your answer sweetie. No guy who really loves you will ever attack you verbally....not unless you attack him first. Talk to your man reasonably and in a civil tone. Guys are no different then women when we're having difficulties darling. Sometimes we just crawl into our caves and say nothing. Pull on his ego a little bit sweetie. Tell him things he wants to hear to pull him out of his shell. Communication will get you everywhere...and then some.
2007-02-23 15:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just want to hang around the house for awhile. My husband is like that. Sometimes he's all about going out and having fun then others he wants to stay at home. Don't go out with out him while he sits around the house.
2007-02-23 15:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know if he still loves you when:
he tells you he loves you
he still kisses you
but if he:
wants to sleep with you as fast as possible its over once you've done it
2007-02-23 15:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Saber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose him...lol..idk..some guys are upset about somethings sometimes and they don't tell anyone....ask him whats up and if he doesnt' tell you how he feels....then lose him....hey there are a few nice guys out there..
2007-02-23 15:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Samething is happening to me!
What should I do?
2007-02-23 15:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by aniani2098 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋