i got a girlfriend on wednesday and i need some help. how do i not loose her and what am i aloud to do, (ex, should i sneek up on her and hug her, is it ok to kiss her yet etc) that type of stuff.
2007-02-23 07:19:23 · 15 answers · asked by Young Jizza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, relationships are two way streets. Sometimes you can do everything right and they still won't work if the other person doesn't return the feelings. I say this only because you sound a little insecure in the relationship and if something were to go wrong, I don't want you thinking it's something you did or didn't do. Some relationships just aren't meant to be - that why when you find that special person they're called "the one" - not "the 100."
Just be yourself around her and don't pretend to be something your not. Listen to her when she talks and make eye contact (unlike more guys - realize her eyes are in her, not her chest). Be supportive of her decisions and respectfully of her and her friends. As for the PDAs - talk to her about it and see what she's comfortable with.
Good Luck with new relationship :)
2007-02-23 07:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha.. We'll first off. You must like her to need advice from total strangers about it. Take things slow. Girls hate guys who take it tooooo fast. Be sensitive.. not too much though, you don't want to be the first one to cry about everything. Be Considerate to her feelings and most of the time put her first.. and don't do what every other guy does.. and that is fight and say that she's right about everything just because you don't want to deal with the problem. ALWAYS BE HONEST. If you don't like something she's doing,wearing, or anything be honest. TELL HER WHAT YOU'RE FEELING ALWAYS. BE EXPRESSIVE.
Good Luck with the girlfriend stuff! Girls can be mean, don't forget that! lol
2007-02-23 15:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it simple for a while, holding hands and gentle kissing to begin with. Start getting a little more intense every week and most importantly go with her vibes. Don't smother her anyway and treat her like a lady and all good things come to those who wait, + if you have any uncertainties with her just talk to her about them. If your open and honest with her it'll go along way in keeping her.
2007-02-23 15:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you already know her really well as a friend? if so then I'd wait about a week untill you start kissing her, hugs are always nice though. If she makes a move on you then go ahead and go along with it. But don't move too fast
2007-02-23 15:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by <JM> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on the girl. If she's fun and flirty, by all means play around. If she's more serious and refined, maybe just keep it toned down. The best thing you can do is ask her. Guys think they're supposed to know it all but the best way to be sure is just ask!
2007-02-23 15:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lost girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your main problem is that your'e thinking too much. Stop thinking about what will happen if you do this or what if you mess things up because then you get stressed out all the time wondering if you did things right which is no fun. I guess my advice would be to just stop thinking and do what feels right.
2007-02-23 15:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure shes comforable first ask her or just kiss her on hte check and go from there or just hold her hand. take things slow and yes u should go up behind her and huge her. just be urself because u dont want to act werid toward her.
Best of luck
2007-02-23 15:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by hopeybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask her if u could hold her hand, And when the day is over give her a sweet kiss.
Thats really sweet!!
2007-02-23 15:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by golondris_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya kiss her on the cheek after sneakin up on her! You sound romantic but talk 2 her as much as you can!
2007-02-23 15:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Adrianne B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are too young to have a girlfriend stay a kid as long as you can the girlfriend boyfriend thing isnt as great as it seem for most of us. you should know when and when not to do things .
2007-02-23 15:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋