well we were together he said lets be friends after we broke up i disagreed so we haven't talked for awhile i keep seeing him in all the local stores we make eye contact and then yea that's it we split and yea what do i do. i know this is stupid but is it a sign or am i just being dumb. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i loved him alot we were together for 10 months and wanted to settle ddown what we had was true
2007-02-23 07:15:25 · 10 answers · asked by yungn8tive1807 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy, so I can give you my thoughts based on my own past. If the two of you live nearby each other and cannot help running into each other, then you will continue to have a problem. If it is over, then it is over - do not think it is "fate" making you run into each other all the time.
I am not saying the old thing that all guys are all dogs, but usually when a guy says let's be friends after we break up, its because of the sex thing. He may want to know he can always make a quick phone call if he can't score on a night out and he knows you may be sitting at home waiting to hear from him.
Don't let yourself be used. Here is a small hint: if he sees you have moved on and sees you out and around having fun and maybe even dating someone, he may want to come back to you again and take it seriously this time. Just don't use someone else to make him jealous.
Be yourself and get out there and enjoy life. You never know what might happen tomorrow
2007-02-23 07:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Curious Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good thing. You left this guy, remember, for your husband? Your husband cheated on you 6 years ago but you took him back. Consider that to be Karma paying you back. Now that you're even, work on your marriage. If your husband has been faithful since returning to you, then that's a good thing. You have a family together. Your children will suffer more than you can imagine if you become involved in an affair. They love their Mommy and Daddy and want their family together. Stop all contact with the other guy before you do something you'll be sorry for. It's just not worth it. Concentrate on your marriage and start putting some spark into it. God bless!
2016-03-29 08:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not stupid and if it was me id take it as a sign. Ask yourself these questions, Why did he want to brake up? what happend in the relationship that could have gone wrong? answer these and call him tell him you want to talk to him if maybe he could meet you somewhere. Then tell him how you feel let him know that you have all the signs and that you miss him that you didnt want to brake up but you did it for him because thats what you thiught he'd want. And if you dont know what happend in the relationship then ask him if he doesnt know then ask him why it ended and why you arent together now. If you made plans for the future that gave you hope and if he didnt want to go through with them then why did he give you a false hope like that. Just talk to him and be open get the truth and make sure you stand your ground. If you dont do this neither will he ad he'll forever be gone, so do it before its too late.
2007-02-23 07:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by ~*BabyGirlpinky06*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always move to a different town/city. Or you could shut yourself in and never go out in public. But really, you're worrying too much about this. If you see him in public, just smile and say hi. Unless he really treated you badly in the break-up there is no reason not to be cordial. In fact, being nice and even smiling and saying hi could be sweet revenge because you are letting him see he didn't ruin your life.
2007-02-23 07:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Justin H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That does not mean anything, because you bump into him. Work on getting yourself together. Stop reading more into this, then it really is! Move on. find new friends to hang out with, and enjoy yourself, and have some fun.
2007-02-23 07:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You broke up for a reason, now it's time to move on. Seeing him is nothing more than coincidence and trying to attach greater significance is desperate. Accept it's over and move on.
2007-02-23 07:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey 10 month relationship somethin special well u got him for that long y not any other guy so just stop thinkin bout him get yur head out of the clouds and get yurself another guy
2007-02-23 14:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Justin H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... have you ever heard that when you think alot about someone is like calling them? thats what i think. the thing is, is that ppl you know might be in the same place but u just wont notice, he stands out so you notice :D good luck
2007-02-23 07:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let time tell
2007-02-23 07:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop it
2007-02-23 07:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋