There's a guy I know...and I'm afraid I like him, but I really don't want to because he is the biggest flirt on the planet! Not that he just flirts with me, but also basically every girl! I have had people tell me that we would make a cute couple...that our personalities are matched...and I've had people tell me also that he likes me! But he's such a FLIRT! Any ideas??
2007-02-23 06:50:32 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may want to keep it like it is if you are not able to handle his flirty ways. It will become harder if your true feelings become involved.
2007-02-23 06:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your personalities match, you say. If you think he'd be fun and it sounds like you do, then date him. If for some reason you wouldn't want to ask him not to flirt and see how that works out then just wait and see if he continues flirting with other girls. Some guys do this but aren't cheaters, its just their nature. People flirt because it boosts their ego when they receive positive responses. These guys need a girl that can handle it. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If he insists on flirting with others, what's to stop you from doing the same? I'd certainly ask that he not do it in your presence and you should respect him in the same way. If you are secure enough, when girls come running to you with information of his flirtations laugh and say , "Yeah, he's such a big flirt, isn't he?" He'll be hearing the same things about you. Let's see if he's man enough to handle that!? It may even cause him to rethink the situation. If he's the jealous type he may decide its better to be a good little boy so you'll be a good little girl. If he's smart he'll realize what comes around goes around. But I wouldn't pass up a chance to give it a whirl. I think you'd regret it.
2007-02-23 17:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are natural born "flirts". The real question is "can you deal with a flirt?" You have to ask yourself if his flirting is going to bother you on a more personal level. It's hard for some people to deal with, which leads to the end of a relationship. You have to know if his flirting is just in fact, flirting, or is is flirting to progress things with someone. Good Luck.
2007-02-23 14:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by Society Dweller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just natural born flirts. They don't even realize they do it; I was told by my ex wife that I flirted with women all the time; but she took the time before we were married to realize that it was totally harmless. I didn't believe her when she first said I was flirt so I asked some of my friends and they confirmed it they knew it was just part of my personality.
2007-02-23 15:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and ask him about the flirting. If he gives you an honest answer give him a chance if he does not then blow him off.
2007-02-23 14:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by rattlesnake1221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you said hes a big flirt, no duuh, you gonna like him
dont go out with him? he can play yoou and you dont want your heart to be broken, but you can take the chance and see where ya'll go
2007-02-23 14:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by cheeesey! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its doesn't matter we are all flirts at one point or another, if he is extra its okey if he really like you then he will stop his flirting games, take a chance but only if he likes you and you like him.
2007-02-23 14:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Loco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow,,be friends first.If he is really interested in you,,he will let you know.He will by his actions ,,not only words.He will want to spend time with you & will be conciderate & respectful.Do not have sex right away.
2007-02-23 14:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are guys, if you like him, picture yourself with him, and he'll come to you, but it sounds like you already know his personality and you might just be setting yourself up... its up to you :)
2007-02-23 14:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to get involved with him.
he sounds like a HUGE loser.
2007-02-23 14:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋