They have no kids together and on top of that he spends money on their lunch date instead of buying a phone card to call you. Then tells you that he was at her place for 4 hours after they had lunch!!!!
2007-02-23 06:32:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a guy and tend to be forgivng, but that doesn't sound right. I woulnd't do that to my gf, and hit the roof if she did that to me.
2007-02-23 06:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's ok in my opinion to stay friends with an ex. But he should have at least got a phone card to call you. As for hanging out with the ex, I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet. First of all if he is trustworthy he will see you don't trust him and he will break it off. Learn to trust him, it's a BIG part of a relationship.
2007-02-23 06:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!!!! If there are no ties attached he shouldn't even be chatting to her let alone visiting her alone at her place.
You need to let him know that this is not on. It's one thing to say Hi if he sees her in the street but to buy her lunch... there's a reason why they are called "the ex", she's the past and should remain that way. Confront him, it's obvious that he is not hiding their dates from you so find out if there's something more to it...
.... cause it looks like there is...
Why wait till you are out of town?
2007-02-23 06:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tinkiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not to any extent further completely buddy zoned. i'm able to ensure that. If i'm wondering wisely from my factor of attitude you should confront her and ask her out. tell her to fulfill you on the flicks or some thing. do not in simple terms sit down there and enable your probability go by. She would imagine that you're in simple terms a pillow or a rub down gadget or some thing, so communicate up.
2016-12-04 20:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like an Innocent visit which clearly your instincts are telling you. It is one thing to occasionally chat on the phone or email, but I see no need to "visit" for 4 hours at an apartment.
2007-02-23 06:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by karenlanea2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find that extremely unacceptable because your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend needs to understand the fact that they're not together anymore and they need to move on with their lives! Besides, having your boyfriend at his ex-girlfriend's house for four hours isn't a good idea, because its raising a red flag and ANYTHING could've happened while he was with her! You need to sit down with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't want to listen, then let him go! Good luck!
2007-02-23 06:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the current girlfriend is secure in herself and the boyfriend is trust worthy enough not to cheat, then there should not be a problem. I hang with exboyfriends all the time and nothing goes on between us. I happen to be 1 of the few woman who gets over **** and am friends with my X's. Good luck.
2007-02-23 06:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Elise Y 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Was he still friends with her before you two started dating? I find it funny that he was there for 4 hours. Unless they've been friends for a long time, I don't think this behavior is ok.
2007-02-23 06:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by x_filequeen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind the lunch thing...but being at her place for 4 hours...DOING WHAT?
No way!!!
My BF still talks to his ex, and even talks to girls he has slept with in the past but, I trust him completely and he doesn't go out of his way for them...he only "talks" to them. There has to be boundries...a limit...He appereantly doesn't know his!!!
2007-02-23 06:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isnt all right for and exboyfriend toex girlfriends house while you are out of town and then there has to be more to it then him staying for 4hours at her house there has to be some hanky panky going on between the 2 of them
2007-02-23 06:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by haroldgardner62002006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋