..so after five years of heavenly sensual bliss...she suddenly leaves me quite quickly back in November for another guy. (huge surprise...no excuses either) I'm obviously quite miffed and irritated with her about it still. She doesn't understand why I'm feeling mad about it though. DUH!!! I don't really hate her or feel like being mean or revengful to her. I did really love her once...my feelings are torn though. I'm not feeling up for big discussion with her for right now either. She wants to be friends with me right now. I'm not really feeling all too friendly towards her quite yet. I told her it will probably be awhile before that even happens....I also told her it might possibly be never. What doesn't she understand about dumping me and then me wanting to go recover for myself first. I told her to stay away for awhile anyways. She thinks I'm being silly! She wants her cake here seriously! What do you think I should serve her up with...and still try keeping it civil?
2007-02-23 06:29:35 · 7 answers · asked by scott s 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Scott, you are hurt right now, and you have every right to be. She needs to respect your wishes. In time you will get over it. So now when you meet some one, take your time so you can get to know them, and then you can go to the next level. Scott, it is not the end of the road for you, their is someone out their for you, just hang in their, and in time every thing will be alright!
2007-02-23 06:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She truly needs to sense needed. Odds are in case you've been to start up courting somebody else, she'd be in the doorstep begging to have you ever back, and then once you supply in, she'll loose interest and connect with yet another, and then keep doing this until eventually you've her out of your existence thoroughly. it truly is an quite egocentric and hurtful ingredient of her to do to you. that is because of her own lack of self assurance and want to sense wanted that she keeps calling, that is no longer fairly about love. actual, i might want to bypass and characteristic a date with someone, even if that is merely casual, no longer fairly to get entangled, merely exciting. at the same time as she calls tell her you've a date, and note what she says! I have by no potential remained pals with any exes, and actual even if you've over them at the same time as i hit upon out they have a female friend or have moved on, there is merely that little tinge of jealously in me. It lasts a second, besides the undeniable fact that that is nevertheless there! lol. that is that voice in almost each women human beings's head that announces, "NO, he should be depressing and pine away for ME for something of his existence!!!!" it might want to probable be maximum suitable to inform her you won't be able to proceed to be pals. no longer saying there is something incorrect with a letter or e mail from time to time to say hey i'm doing properly, etc. etc. etc. yet, calling on an primary foundation, and talking about different relationships like that is not any enormous deal is quite awkward.
2016-10-17 08:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by konen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What that girl is nuts leave her alone she broke your heart and you were so kind in not broking the guy she left you for jaw nope she is the one being silly you were right to tell her no friends no nothing you go
2007-02-23 06:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dark MInd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she made her bed and now she has to lie in it. If she thinks you are being silly, she is cold hearted and you are truely better off without her.
2007-02-23 06:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you don't think the woman you're seeing now would appreciate a friendship between you and your ex at this time and that you really don't want to screw things up with this new woman
2007-02-23 06:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Robert P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it was a long relationship I'd be the better person and just let it go
2007-02-23 06:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's what you do...
Say, ok thats cool, ask her to meet up some place and then never show up...
... she how she likes being F**ked over!
2007-02-23 06:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋