I have experienced these kind of problems for a very long time it doesnt get any better. I also suffer from severe anger problems..as well as these
How is your esteem?Low self esteem!
Are you agressive in your behavior?Unfortunately yes
Any substance abuse?Drink alot and smoke..Use to do coke about 5 years ago..
Eating disorders?Suffered from anorexia but am coming up from it i am now 108 and am 5'2
Any depression or anxiety?I have severe depression and axiety attacks.
Trouble with work?Only concentration
I cannot trust men, I hate to be touched, Very uncomfortable when i get stared at by men, I feel like i'm gross, Can't stop thinking about certain times in my childhood, very questionable..
As for my relationships I can't get close to men, I am very tempermental towards them.I always tend to ruine long term relationships and short term ones, I still cannot trust them..
I am now married and I still have a hard time trusting him.I have a tendancy to bottle things up and blow up
2007-02-23 06:18:44 · 9 answers · asked by Kasja 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I suggest you get therapy ASAP. It could very well be that perhaps you WERE molested as a child or even an infant! Even at such a premature age, an infant can develop these emotions subconciously, and this might be something that you blocked out of your head as a defense mechanism to protect yourself.I'm guessing this situation is taking it's tole on you and everyone around you. Get help TODAY.
2007-02-23 06:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming from. I too was abused as a child & repressed so much of it since it happened.I didn't start having dreams or remembering the things that happened to me until i gave birth to my daughter 2 years ago. I've since started getting help & taking lexapro which has been a blessing. I still know what happened to me I'll never forget but I can move on & not let it eat up the rest of my life. I have 2 kids to live for. I been through the bad relationships & drug abuse too hell i still smoke a little weed now but I'm not letting these things take over my life. remember that
2007-02-23 08:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be. I was going thru some stuff in my life at one point when i could not trust anyone-and gay people disgusted me. One day i was on the phone watching girlfriends with one of my friends, and i said out loud" Thats how she used to grab my hair" My friend was like" what?!?!?!" But then i remembered how i was molested at age 7- by a girl who a little younger than me. She would grab my hair and threaten me if i didnt let her perform oral sex on me. I cried for hours as i recalled all those horrific events . I was really small as a little girl- and she was real big even though she was younger than i was. It was just crazy- i had to talk to a therapist who said sometimes people force themselves to forget things like tha. esp since i never told anyone bcuz i thought it made me gay. But im not gay- and i have come to terms with it now. But u could have been molested as a child- but made urself forget. See a thereapist or even someone who can give you advice without judging you.
2007-02-23 06:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by lovelylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 08:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should book in with a therapist and tell them all this. Together you can work through things. Perhaps they will do a life-line with you - its surprising how much you can start to recall when you do one of these with your therapist.....
Good luck xx
2007-02-23 07:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you need to see a therapist asap. and since you don't trust your husband, you probably were molested as a child.
2007-02-23 10:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Draco Malfoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a variety of problems.
Only a professional can help you find out if you were molested.
2007-02-23 06:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a trained and licensed hypnotist can trangress you back to childhood and you can find out for sure.
2007-02-23 06:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like to think back to that classic song...
"sometimes when we touch...
you always scream too much..."
2007-02-23 06:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by kevin21boston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋