Do you think is it posible to be able to find "THE ONE" at the age of 16??? just curious on your thoughts and be serious!!!!!
2007-02-23 06:11:34 · 40 answers · asked by ~~ny giants fan~~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anything is possible. The only problem being, as you age, you continue to grow, and sometimes people "grow" in opposite directions. (as in growing apart)
2007-02-23 06:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to be honest with you. I believe that you can find "the one" at any point in your life, shoe shopping, or in an airport, when you are 55 or 9.
BUT... when you are 16 you have a lot of growing to do (not growing up, but changing). There are people who marry those they were dating in high school, and that is totally reasonable for some. Sometimes you meet someone at that age, and you think they are "the it and the everything", and they maybe for that time in your life, and it can be AMAZING. Sometimes though, after a few years, and some changes, you grow in different directions.
I dated a guy from when i was 16 until i was 21. We changed a lot in the years that we were together, but we both changed into really different people even though we started out as the two closest people you could imagine.
I say you can fine the right one for you at 16 but they may only be the right one for right now.
Keep an open mind and an open heart. And love everyone deeply, even if they aren't the one.
2007-02-23 06:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by PiaAntonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know when I was 16 I found "the one" every other week. I would be in major love with someone all the time - until I got to know them. I think it's certainly possible, but you're not old enough to get married anyway so just enjoy the time together. There's no rush or pressure to find that one person and label them as such anyway. Chances are, you'll go to college, thereby spending time apart, and your relationship will be tested. If it survives that, then it's a good sign.
2007-02-23 06:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by pookiemct07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband at age 17... though we didn't begin dating until I was 25. There is no doubt in my mind that he is The One. So yes, anything is possible. Just don't expect a serious longterm relationship to begin at 16 because you still have a lot of growing and maturing to do.
2007-02-23 06:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Lucky♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its possible, but it would be very wise to keep the relationship to only courting (dating) and not get all involved with the sexual aspect, because I don't think that would add to your feelings , but could complicate things in a way that could change your lives forever. Unwanted pregnancy before your lives have even really began, etc... For women, we tie our emotions in with sex, so at 16, you will only put yourself in a position that may be irreversible, so why risk that? If you really feel genuine love for each other, the sex can wait until you are established with your educations, and careers, etc... Then you will know that it was worth the wait, because you used your heads and not just your feelings and emotions. Good Luck to you.
2007-02-23 06:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could .... the thing is.... if he's "THE ONE" he'll still be "THE ONE" 5 years or even 10 years from now..... there is no need to be significant about men (or women if you are a guy) and the one.... dating alot of different guys (I did not say have sex with them) date alot of guys really has you look at what you want long term. You want to seperate the chemistry from what you want long-term. When you are dating enjoy the attraction and the chemistry and bottom line.... kiss alot of guys and find out what you like! LOL G
2007-02-23 06:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Gaye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possible - yes
Probable - no
You're very young still and you are going to change a LOT in the next 10 - 15 yrs. It is rare to find someone when you are only 16 that is going to change in exactly the same ways you are going to.
2007-02-23 06:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY?
Why would you want that.
Are you so desperate? Enjoy your family. Enjoy your friends. Date in GROUPS. Spend time with your dad NOW and learn from him. Have you mom teach you everything she KNOWS. Get to be the best person you can become before even LOOKING for 'the one'. Even then.. wait a bit more.
Girl. be grown up. a grown up KNOWS where they are in life and enjoys that place. Finish school. Start College. Keep your eyes open and guard your heart.
no.. you cannot.. unless you are arab or Eastern Indian and your parents have already picked out your husband?
2007-02-23 06:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by kent j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if your mature enough....
I can't disagree with your question, I married at 16, still married...in May we will be celebrating our 20th anniversary.
So...I may be one of a thousand that has made it that long when marrying that young....
We just knew what we had to do after we got married to make it....we knew we'd have bills, have to have groceries, had to have the makings for a home...Jobs to pay those bills....and an education. And we didn't have our first child till we were married for 8 years....
2007-02-23 06:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its possible but not probable. At sixteen you still have alot of growing up to do and your likes and dislikes are gonna change many times. At 16, just relax, enjoy growing up..Have Fun
2007-02-23 06:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you will change a lot in the years to come and while this person maybe "The one" now, who can say about 5,10, 15 20+ years down the road.
2007-02-23 06:14:35 · answer #11 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋