alrighty alrighty! lets be blunt here and just say i'm a really shy person so, i want to tell this guy how i feel, i've decided that the best approach for myself would be to write a letter to him, but i think thats just waaaay to cheesy even for someone as shy as me, so is there any other way i can tell him what i feel without being to straight forward??? NEED HELP! STAT!
2007-02-23 06:01:48 · 18 answers · asked by word4word 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it sounds way cool!
Man i wish i was getting a letter!
2007-02-23 06:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling...how can you make someone else happy if you are not even comfortable with yourself? Not to criticize at all (cos I was once shy) but you really need to get over this shyness thing because sooner or latter u will realize that it is only holding you back from being all that you can be. and being all that u can be, that's what it's all about...and until u get there at least half way (which you will by focusing on yourself and making yourself happy) stop thinking about anyone or anything else. But if you still want to know about the guy...OK, love letters are a bit childish...and knowing that you are shy, why don't you just send him an email asking him out? Because I know the only reason why you wouldn't want to be straight-forward with him is because u r afraid of getting shot down. But u have got to realize that even if you write him the nicest poem in history, he still can shoot you down. So, why waste time? Just ask him straight out and if he says no...well, at least you didn't lose three days writing that letter to him and you now have these three days to make yourself happy or find another potential suitor! Good luck and seriously, life is too short to be shy...u got to go out there and take what you want cos ain't nobody gonna give it to you!!! no matter how nice you are...
2007-02-23 06:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats definatelly not childish! I am a very shy person too and I Have actually been thinking the same thing but I have decided that is the best way to go cuz i think any other way i would like faint or something!
2007-02-23 06:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by A rose by any other name... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to get mired down in a letter, I suggest a card. Something he can respond to. If you write a letter, he might interpret things in a different way than you intended. Get a bit more comfortable with him. Meet for coffee. I usually take along pictures of things near and dear to me. When the conversation needs help, I pull out the pictures. That opens more avenues for him to talk about his family, likes, dislikes, vacations, etc. Don't commit to love, until you are comfortable enough to say it to his face.
2007-02-23 06:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A love letter sounds goog to me in this world where rush rush this and that a letter would be just the thing you can put your feelings your heart what you think about him and all the thinks you may not say to him because you are shy and one good thing he can allway keep it to think about you
2007-02-23 06:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not chilidish! i actually think its cute. I mean im a shy person to so if a letter helps you then thats what you should do. But ah heres also what helps. Red Bull and Vodka!!
2007-02-23 06:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by `Riy;; 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make it a LOVE letter. More of an "I'm interested" letter. What could be even better is a third person delivering the message--in person.
2007-02-23 06:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Answer Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldn't tell him straight forward at all. cause you will neglect that some day. just be nice to him, and try to accompany him nicely, treat him well. thats the only way that you can go further, but other wise, it wont help.
i think that if he likes you, he would tell you finally
don't make yourself feel upset, with no confident by telling him
i completely agree with Gõldεn angεl
"GIRLS never make the move,never flirt..
sorry but Im against that!.."
i am against that as well
2007-02-23 06:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by argentina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think everyone apprcate one if the meaning was true or even by being on a trial basic's sounds cool as long no one elese received it first!
2007-02-23 06:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋