My bf broke up with me, but I was wondering if he even cared about me to begin with. Cuz everytime I would invite him somewhere he would be like I am gone so much my parents wouldnt want me to do that. He was calling this other girl gorgeous and stuff and I tried to be understanding about all of it but it was hard. Do you think he cared?
2007-02-23 05:46:48 · 30 answers · asked by Paige Sputnik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to hang out with guys like that! You could ask him if he cared at all that would be my best advice. We all sort of wonder this at some point. Maybe he cared at the beginning of your bf/gf thing. Then he lost his motive to be with you. Most of the time that happens to me. Just talk to him and find out what went wrong. And if he make a smart remark then you'll know if he cared. Most of the time guys like that want attention from every girl in the room.
I hope this helped you.
2007-02-23 05:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Jess ♥ I dream, I wish, I love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really cared about you he would ask you your opinion and what your thoughts and feelings are. If he is calling some girl gorgeous then there is a chance that he is wanting to hook up with her and not even give you a second thought, in this case you and him are broken up and so you don't need him if he is going to act like this toward you, it seems he does not want to work out the relationship so you need to move on and forget him because it is not worth it.
2007-02-23 13:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter? He has broken up with you - that relationship is in the past...leave it there and get on with your own life.
One of the most difficult things a lot of young women [and some older too] have in doing is to SEE THE WARNING SIGNS in a relationship. They overlook the signs and red flags. Obviously there were red flags in your relationship before the break up. Your 'understanding' was an avoidance of facing up to the fact that it just wasn't a good match between the two of you.
That makes neither of you the bad guy - everyone is not meant for each other.
2007-02-23 13:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say without a lot more info on your relationship. But here's the thing, who cares? I know it sucks to have someone break up with you and you woner what you could have done to keep him. Trust me though, you'll be fine. It no longer matters if he cared or not because you are not with him anymore. Move one, spend a little time alone, then get back out there and find someone better.
2007-02-23 14:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter now? You seem to be validating something that might not be measurable. I think you are suffering from poor self esteem and need to get busy doing something that you really love. Start a hobby or pick up one that you had. Volunteer! Nothing makes you feel as good as that! And most importantly, reassure yourself that you are worthy. Write down all your good points and the things that you are proud of and put it in a place that you will see it and look at it frequently.
2007-02-23 13:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the only thing he cared about was getting in yours or anyone elses pants. Sorry but try not to beat yourself up over it, move on, find a nicer fella.
2007-02-23 13:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope he did at one point, guy was your boyfriend after all. It really depends on the guy, I flirt a bit, but I watch myself if my girl is around...I'd like to think she knows I don't mean it, but either way I try to watch myself when she's there. If he flirts alot, probably doesnt mean anything, but he shouldn't be doing it in front of you....
My family are the same way, I go out alot, and hardly ever get a chance to see them...why didn't you go over to his place?
2007-02-23 13:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he cared but not about you. when keep inviting someone to things and they always say that they have something else to do or make excuses then dont ask them any more they are not that in to you.
2007-02-23 13:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Friday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about your past? Focus on your future!
Believe it or not?
There ARE better men out there who know how to treat a woman with love and respect!
2007-02-23 13:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by argytunes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he was doing those things you just said, then he didnt care about you during your relationship. Either he lost it during the relationship or he lost it at the beginning when you two become official
2007-02-23 13:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋