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2007-02-23 05:45:09 · 20 answers · asked by julee g 1 in Pets Dogs

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I am so sorry to hear that. I just got a dog a year ago. (It's my first pet, and he has brought so much joy in my life) I can't imagine something happening to him. He is like a family member!
I think you should get a new one.

2007-02-23 05:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Calebs Mom 3 · 0 1

Cry, grieve, talk to your dog that has passed, do things that help you to get past your sweet dogs death. All the things that I have listed (and more) really do help with the sadness part of a death. Then, when you're ready, look for another sweet pooch to love you. There are so many family-less dogs at humane societies and rescues facilities who would luv to be YOUR dog because you sound like a good pet person.
My condolences to you.

2007-02-23 06:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly_from_Texas 5 · 0 0

Oh sweety, this is a tough one.
my 2 best friends in the world passed about 3 years ago..I still cry...but the crying becomes less and less year after year.
Losing a dog is like losing a family member, the grief is just as real, and you will need to let yourself grieve as much as you need to. Don't try to make it better, it will only make you feel worse..trust me.
After about a year of grieving for my german shephard that I loved so much (and still do) I became a foster home for washington german shephard rescue (in her name) and it has helped ease my pain a little..at least I feel comforted believeing that this is what she would want me to do Everytime I would find a wonderful loving home for an abused GSD, or help one have a warm place to sleep and love and kindness I say to myself, "this is for you Sierra, you were a great doggy"
the pain is still there, but it is much easier to live with now.
((((big hugs)))))
(please don't get another dog right away...I did that when my first one passed, and it was horrible...that dog could never be my kiesha or my sierra...I kept comparing them, and they were never good enough..and only made the pain worse (and made my new dog unhappy)...something different like a cat might help though, at least you wont compare your new cat to your old friend)

2007-02-23 05:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by spottedmyappy 3 · 1 0

I'm sorry for the loss of your dog. I know some people do not understand how the loss of a pet can affect you, but alot of times people have such a strong bond with their animals that it is devastating to lose them! I had a cat once that was like a son to me, I loved him fiercely and when he died I felt like a piece of me died, too. I laid in bed for days sobbing and would not get up or do anything, I wouldn't even go to work. I know some people can't understand that but I do. The only thing that helps is time, as time goes by things will start to get better, but you will never stop missing your dog.

2007-02-23 05:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra B 1 · 2 0

We got over our dogs death by going right away and getting another puppy. We chose her because no one else wanted her, and it was the best decision we have ever made. While we were busy having fun and training her, our thoughts were sort of less on the death of our other one. She is the most sensitive, smartest dog I have ever had!! We still think of Smokey, but not so much.

2007-02-23 05:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by magpie 2 · 0 1

One day at a time.

I still cry when I think about the day I had to let my last pup go and it was almost 4 years ago. But that's ok. I also smile to myself when I think of all of the fun and goofy memories I have of him. Surround yourself with people who understand the love and loss of a pet and ignore those who would say "It was just a dog" and it will make the next few weeks and months easier to bear. Only a true dog lover will understand your loss.

*Hugs* to you and I am so sorry for your loss and the grief you are feeling.

2007-02-23 05:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Scruffy Dog 2 · 3 0

You will, you have to give yourself time to morn and greeve. Just think of all the good times you had with you dog. As the days go by it will get a little easer. Maybe down the lne you might even think about geting another dog. He or she would never replace this one but you can start making new memories. They really are our special friends.

2007-02-23 05:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by janet 3 · 1 0

With time. It will get better with every day. Eventually, think about getting a new dog. Death is a part of life. Accepting it is the hardest part. It will be okay.

2007-02-23 05:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jonathan B 2 · 2 0

Time is the only thing that heals it. You'll always miss your dog. It gets easier over time. It does help to get another dog...something else to love and care for and take your mind off your baby who died.

2007-02-23 05:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Mullet Man 2 · 1 0

I lost a dog three years ago he was three months shy of his 18th birthday his name was Paddington and he was a min poodle he was red colored. He was the love of my life. Three weeks after he died and he was cremated and I have his ashes. Anyways three weeks after he died, I was putting away my clothes in my closet and suddenly I heard Paddington barking. I freaked out I was stunned, I thought he felt lost. I called out to him and it went on for about 30 seconds and went away. Three weeks after that I got up in the middle of the night and came back into my bedroom and suddenly I saw this bright light on the floor and suddenly I saw Paddington. I screamed and he disappeared. Then about a month later I had company over and we were all in the kitchen. Suddenly from the living room we all heard a dog bark. All my guests freaked out and so did I. Since then we have had sightings and hear his feet on the floor and one time I heard him sneezing (he was allergic to dust) anyways do not grieve your dog is still with you. You will see him again. Smile your dog loved you and he still is in your home. :-) I was shown proof.

2007-02-23 06:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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