I mean I know its harmless and nothing will come of it because
he is WAY TOO young for me, but I seriously find myself blushing
whenever I see him and I can't seem to stop smiling. Then when
he leaves.......I feel a little sad. Also, he is quite the little flirt.
I think he knows........I really do.
2007-02-23 05:44:47 · 18 answers · asked by Trish 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I, too, blush and act stupid when I am around a few (MUCH) younger, good-looking males. I am in my 40s. There are a couple of guys I work with that have that effect on me. I think it's perfectly normal, cute, and sweet. Plus, if he's flirting back at you then consider yourself supremely flattered.
Peace.
2007-02-23 05:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by tgob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your eye and fancy can be caught by anyone, anywhere. That's why it's a crush, it doesn't have to be reasonable.
You, however, sound like you're being pretty reasonable in realizing that the age difference is a very large obstacle. However, if you're blushing and sad, I don't think you've entirely resolved yourself to it yet.
Just make up your mind that either he's an inaccessible window-shopping treat (and enjoy him as such, there's nothing wrong with a flirty friendship), or make up your mind to try anyway.
2007-02-23 13:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ders nothin wrong girl as long as u both like each oder..and u didnt hurt anyone...my cuzin shes 31..and she got a crushed in a guy whos 21..she even fell inlove...dey both had intimate relationship..the chances are so big..u cant hide it wen it comes..if the feelings so good just go for it..the question will be r u married or not???
2007-02-23 13:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by suarez_stacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a crush if you want, he's legal. Enjoy it. Especially that such a young man would find you attractive enough to flirt back. Eat it up girl!!!!
2007-02-23 13:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is really blind when things will work out the way u think no one knows. u can have a crush on just anyone love is no ones property., it just happens and age is just no bar the penis and vagina do not grow throughout life after 19 they grow no more
2007-02-23 13:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
chances are very common..i am 30 and i still catch myself checking out younger guys..nothing wrong with that at all.
2007-02-23 13:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if yall both willing to go ahead and pursue it dont say nothing can come of it u never know and just talk about taking it slow and seeing where it leads he is legal so have fun
2007-02-23 13:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My ex-gf had a crush on my ex-bf, prior to all of us dating, so yes. He was 29, she was 40.
2007-02-23 13:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its very likely there are many married couples with a huge age gap like that
2007-02-23 13:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by coconaut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not uncommon at all...and it's also not that uncommon for a woman that age (or older) to act on it.
To each, their own.
2007-02-23 13:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋