Following on from my last question about the girl i was crazy after..anyway shes comin over to mine tonight with 4 bottles of wine she said (shes not a alco or anythin)lol,anyway my friends will be here havin afew drinks also but she said she wants ta stay the night,i said fine i will sleep on ground and you can have my bed,anyway do you think i should say sumtin tonight when were alone or leave it? im nervous because if i ask her and she says "i like you as a friend" thats our friendship ruined..please help!
2007-02-23 05:35:49 · 19 answers · asked by John A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm
sorry cant help Im bad at this.lol
2007-02-23 05:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Gõlden angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to the girl. When everyone is gone, tell here you're confused and ask her if the time she spends with you, she sees you as a friend or if she want's more than that type of friendship.
It will put the pressure on her so you wont look like a fool whichever side the answer goes.
I would have to admit that the way shes acts looks good for you. Best of luck.
2007-02-23 13:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Boomer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you do exactly what you said you were going to do. Let her have the bed. If she invites you to sleep on the bed also, refuse to do so at 1st. Then she'll be like, "come on, its okay." and that's when you join her. Don't make a move, let her do that. If she leads you to holding her then do so or whatever else she leads to do. If you can lay there without making a move, (well the 1st move) she's really gonna realize how much of a good friend you really are and that you aren't only trying to have sex with her. Let me know how things turn out.
However I do believe in waiting until marriage.
2007-02-23 13:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! All she can say is no and then just be her friend.
Wait a minute! I was fixing to give this answer a little thought, but I already got you figured out! 4 bottles of wine? You know she is going to be drunk so you will get some anyway! But you might want to go buy a bottle of Jose Quervo too. Tequila makes their clothes fall off! LMAO!!!
2007-02-23 13:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't end your friendship if you ask and she says no....Wait until everyone leaves though and talk intellectually though. Have fun with your friends but remember don't be that much of a loser. When your friends are gone and your in the middle of talking, ask her what she thinks if you and her could be anything more then friends but remind her that you still want to be friends as to not make it awkward if she's not interested and if she says she's not interested in you in that sense, remember you didn't regret not letting her know, you did what you could, know where you stand and still have a friend through it all. Good luck !!!
2007-02-23 13:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems a little forthcoming that she wants to spend the night, but maybe because I'm old fashioned. ;-) If you guys are good friends, you should be able to handle a conversation like, "I'm a bit confused and just want to be sure we're straight- is there anything going on here that I don't recognize or is there something I should know about?" Let her answer it and go from there. She won't be offended if you come right out and sound like you're confused.
2007-02-23 13:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by wizbangs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly! if she is putting herself out there, asking can she spend the night (she made the first move). But u gotta make a half of a move for u wont look stupid or anything! talk 2 her about a topic or question that can go on and on! Open up 2 her, n sit there with her until she fall asleep! lol
2007-02-23 13:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by tai d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a real winner. Tee hee.
This is my advice- just don't follow her lead. Make SURE you sleep on the ground or whatever. She'll be taken aback by your aloofness and will be hounding you in less than 3 days. lol. I know women well since I am one!
2007-02-23 13:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is asking to spend the night she likes you. So if I were you I would make the moves pronto !
2007-02-23 13:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by over the moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to stay the night then she wants to be more than friends..
2007-02-23 13:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow her lead - and always act like a gentleman.
Good luck
2007-02-23 13:39:30 · answer #11 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋