2007-02-23 05:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by Danish S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. A good sence of humor that will keep her smiling so she can feel happy.
2. Compliments so that she will feel special when she is speaking with you.
3. Showing that your a good friend and will be there no matter what so that she will feel safe when with you.
4. If you ever plan to give her a gift, give her something that you got based on her likings and personality. For example something that she will like to use that is her favorite color or a movie that she loves or will love based on her lifestyle or lets say she likes cherries and chocolate so you get her chocolate coated cherries. Better yet make her that gift but dont be giving her gift after gift thinking you can buy her out.
5. Be smooth and go with the flow. Don't try to impress her but like kind of impress her but in a way that your not trying just being yourself.
6. Flowers so when you ever screw up lol
7. Even when your in a big crowd of friends always give her the same attention as if you were alone together and don't act differently with her.
8. Little things that count like little teasing touches every now and then or hugs when she doesn't expect it. Notes, phone calls stuff like that.
Just try not to be shy and don't try to approach the top girls all the time because their not all nice, find yourself a match, work out every now and then (it's easy to keep in shape) try improving your looks and lifestyle any way you can (even i need to work on that)
GOOD LUCK ;)
2007-02-23 05:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by Christian G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being unpopular, talk to people and stuff. Don't dress like a nerd, dress cool. I'm sure a girl will love you for how you look, I don't like the way I look, but it seems a lot of girls love the way I look. And I met girls who thought they were ugly when they were clearly not. Most people think they are ugly when they are not.
2007-02-23 05:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a girl out who is unpopular and a nerd and doesnt look too good. You'll both understand each other.
2007-02-23 05:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jimbo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be tough. C'est la vie. But don't give up. If you are a nerd you probably don't have the greatest physique, so try going to the gym. Also, you don't need to be popular to get a girlfriend. Above all, and I can't stress this enough, work on your confidence. I've seen relatively ugly guys who have some serious game, and you can't have that without confidence.
2007-02-23 05:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by creepy_mitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems such as you're very self accepted and you haven't any longer spent adequate time thinking approximately human beings to understand what they are like. Wallowing in self pity won't in any respect assist you and no person desires to hold out with somebody who's moody and depressed. flow out and initiate volunteering to help human beings. nutrition banks, baby's communities, outdoors interest communities, library, some thing. you're able to get out of your individual head. helping others is the excellent subject you're able to do to correctly known how astounding existence is and that your existence isn't all that undesirable. It seems such as you have adequate to consume, an education, a mom who cares for you and adequate money which you do no longer choose a job. That makes you luckier than a impressive style of the folk in the international so provide up feeling sorry for your self and flow help others. or you will stay a meaningless existence and die a depressing individual. no person needs that.
2016-11-25 02:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by kirodimal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters girls aren't usually as shallow as us blokes, though physical attraction is always a good start. Excercise and fell fit and then you will fell confident. If you have look around at men fashion stores you will get some good ideas for cloths or perhaps ask girl or a guy to help you. Look at what other guys are wearing and copy that. There are books around on flirting read them and try it out on everyone you met until you start building your confidence. Also know that one day a girl will love you for you.
2007-02-23 05:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have no standards... you'll eventually find some fat chick on the internet that will give you some.
Apart from that, start going to the gym yourself and in a few months, you'll look a bit better!
EDIT: Do not take any advice from women on this matter... they will give you a great bleeding heart tale, but you know the reality of it.... BTW... things get better when you get older!
2007-02-23 05:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try to improve the parts of your appearance that you can improve. especially hygiene (i'm not saying this is an issue for you specifically, just that i get the impression that many geeks/nerds think of hygiene as unimportant). try to work out at the gym, widen the range of things you can talk about, try to make female friends and ask for help with your wardrobe. but do all this for yourself, not just to impress someone else.
2007-02-23 05:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya der..how u doing?
first u need to decide y u want a girlfrnd...just to be popular n all its not a very good idea..it shud be abt luv....
i dont think luv is all abt being popular being all fun n luking too good.....
just that u have to be appealing to the opposite person..
use these things are ur plus pts rather than thinking they are ur drawbacks...
self confidence is sumthing u have to develop...n u will b just fine...
all the best
take care
God bless
2007-02-23 05:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by koolnsj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these things dont matter trust me.. as long as you stay true to yourself and who you are then you will find someone.. i found mine after alot of bad relationships and pain including a failed marriage and my daughters biological father leaving us so dont think that you will fand your one true matched person easily my boyfriend has had a failed marriage and many painfull relationships and women telling him he is ugly and now he is 26 has me i love him so much everything about him.. and i think he is hot.. so try not to worry
2007-02-23 05:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by ibitemytounge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋