Can somebody please tell me if that is possible? Is it written somewhere? Because he is convenced that he does love me but I dont think that it is possible to love another women when your married. Serious answers please.
2007-02-23 05:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is unhappy in his marriage and is looking for an escape. Do not get involved with this guy. If he were a real man he would either work things out with his wife or leave. He doesn't feel real love or he would respect you more. Avoid him as much as possible and stay away fom married men. If they can cheat on their wives, they can cheat on you!
2007-02-23 05:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by ciao_gina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are wrong. Loving more than one person at a time is not only possible, but actually much more common than you think.
I am happily married, yet have fallen in love with other people.
I am polyamorous. I am very open about my feelings and non-monogamous nature. I always make certain everyone involved is aware and OK before I enter into a relationship (their significant other, if they have one, and my wife). Though sex is a component of these romantic relationships, it's no different than anyone with a girlfriend or wife. Love is, by far, the most important factor in any romantic relationship, not sex. They are long term and very loving relationships.
I broke up with my ex-gf and ex-bf a year ago. I still love them and still haven't gotten over them. It still hurts to see them or be around them. My wife has been very supportive during this time. I suspect if it hadn't been for her support and love I'd have blown my brains out already.
This said, if you are considering dating a person that cannot be honest with those he is already involved with, then you are guaranteeing a disaster. Multiple person relationships are extremely difficult and a lot of work when everyone is completely open. Lying and deception is a hard certainty of a painful failure.
2007-02-23 13:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run as fast as you can in the other direction. Don't get invovled with the drama. There is more at stake than just his wife finding out. What if thay have kids you would be breaking up a family. You wouldn't look too lady like. Besides if he cheats on his wife with you then I'm pretty sure he'll cheat on you with someone else. Just let him know that you are not that type of girl.
2007-02-23 13:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but it doesn't matter. You don't need to waste your time with someone that doesn't have the character to look inside his marriage for love, or end his marraige before he would entertain the idea of someone else with anything more than a random thought.
Love is not a feeling, it is a choice and an expression of that choice. He was attracted to you and chose to spend time evaluating your looks, your character, the life he perceives you to have, and he chose to allow his focus to shift from where it belongs to you.
2007-02-23 13:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know really. this married guy does the same to me and i dont have a clue if he just likes me cause im not his wife n he can try n have an affair with me or what but unless he'd leave his wife for you he dont love you. but even if he left her he wont be a gd hubby coz if hed leave her 4 u wots 2 say he wont do da same 2 u. but yh its possible
2007-02-23 13:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by megakimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to call you when he has signed devorse papers in his hand. It is possible for him to love you, if children are involved in the relationship that is probably what is making him stick around in his marriage. I'd stay away until he does leave her and is free. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-23 13:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by mare122870 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm..... He might be using you as the 'chick on the side'. Chances are he won't leave his wife for you....
2007-02-23 13:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sagira Tadashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋