This fella from my girlfriends neighberhood keeps hitting on her, I have warned him before but he hasn't stopped, should I beat him up?
I am 6' 4" and well built, he is a little guy.
2007-02-23 05:09:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with Babe Heart and the other posters. Fighting him will get you nothing but a lot of trouble and a lawsuit. Tell HER to speak to him first. Tell her to make it clear that while he probably means no harm and thinks he's being flattering his flirting with her makes her uncomfortable and is unwelcome. She should tell him that her eyes and heart are for you and you only.
If he persists or add a new element to his flirting like putting his hands where they don't belong then you could step in and have a word with him. Even then, don't pound him into dust but talk to him man to man and tell him your girlfriend has spoken to him and you've spoken to him about hitting on her. Tell him if he doesn't knock it off she'll take a restraining order out on him.
Try doing it legally and non-violently first. Hopefully he'll get the message and back off. Hopefully your gf is not encouraging him. If that's the case it's hardly fair for her to give him hope and then run to you and complain. Some women get a kick out of men paying attention to and fighting over them. Giving your gf the benefit of the doubt she's not one of those women. Gpod luck to you
2007-02-23 05:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make you look like a mean bully. Are you really that jealous and mistrusting? What harm is there if he flirts...she should be politely rebuffing him and that should be that.
You wanting to beat him up (sorry to say this) just makes you sound like a neanderthal. Why not do the reverse and go up to him really friendly and say "yeah man, you've got great taste...she's my girlfriend and she's a fabulous gal...we're very happy together" THAT would be a more appropriate way to get the point across than setting yourself up for an assault and battery lawsuit.
2007-02-23 05:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok one question are you specific she replaced into flirting? That it wasnt in simple terms a chum or some thing?? think of heavily approximately that... if she replaced into flirting nonetheless and making it glaring ruin up together with her... through fact in some months she'll in all hazard be doing extra beneficial than flirting with different adult men
2016-10-16 08:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's giving him the time of day - then you dump her and keep it moving. if she's ignoring him and as long as he isn't getting touchy feely or isn't talking dirty to her or anything - leave the guy alone. you dont need to fight him - he'll just get his *** kicked im sure. apparently he has nothing better to do than hit on your hot girlfriend. so take it as a compliment - and im sure your girl is flattered as well. use this **** in your favor bro - remind her that hes only checkin her out cuz shes so beautiful. you know, sweet stuff like that - this could totally gain you points bro. take it from a chick ... i know:)
2007-02-23 05:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that the Adult thing to do?
The fella isn't the problem, its how your girlfriend takes the interest he's giving her, If she encourages him he will keep hitting on her.
A relationship is a two way street, it takes two to make it work.
Are you putting in the effort that you need to to keep her happy?
2007-02-23 05:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u don't wanna kill the guy if your that big but maybe jus keep an eye on her or tell her to ignore him and if she cares about u she'll listenin if not she not the one for you man .... n if the guy starts harrasing her and she is ignoring him n telling him to back off then you can either A) beat the shitt outta him lol ; ) [[to me i think most of the time violence gets your point across]] or B) have her press charges against him....the decision is up to you
2007-02-23 05:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by no name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That's childish and stupid. My boyfriend is the same way and it's a turn off. His anger and tendency to fight has caused us to lose a lot of friends and it never resolves anything. If you have such a problem with him, your girlfriend should be the one to tell him to stop. If she doesn't, then maybe she likes the attention.
2007-02-23 05:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ak long as she is not flirting back what is the big deal. Maybe you should take it as a compliment that he finds her attractive. Beating him up is not the answer. He could have you arrested. Just ignore him. Good luck.
2007-02-23 05:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will beating him up solve? It will most likely hurt your girlfriend because you tried to harm one of her friends. Just lay low, and talk to her. Let her know that it is bugging you, and I'm sure you two will figure something out. Good luck.
2007-03-02 07:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by jesss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, flirting is OK, how does your girlfriend feel about it?? If it doesn't bother her it shouldn't bother you. Just be flattered that someone finds her attractive too!! Besides wouldn't you feel silly beating up a leprechaun?
2007-02-23 05:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by Angela C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋