Well, its going to be both our first time... and I went out and bought some condoms. Well, she said that she would use the pill before we used condoms. She says that it would be more passionate without a condom and that it probably would feel weird. But, I also heard it would last longer if I used a condom. So, wich one should we use. I'm not worried about STDs I just don't want a baby on my hands right now. Isn't the pill less affective then a condom?
2007-02-23 05:06:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The pill is a safe method of control when use correctly, condoms or also. If a baby is what your trying to prevent then I would use a condom to be safe while she continue to use the pill cause you never know. Good luck.
2007-02-23 05:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be on the pill for at least a month or so really before I would have unprotected sex .. just to be sure the pill is working for her ... the condom will make it last longer but so will a c*ck ring or anything wrapped around your penis ... the more you take the time to please her and make her wet - the more passionate it will be for her ... for now I would use a condom & the pill until you feel comfortable she's been taking it regularly and isn't just saying it ... I got pregnant on the pill - switching from one type to another so things can always happen - FYI - also watch out if she's taking any antibiotics ... it will lower the pills ability to work properly and she can end up pregnant ... !
2007-02-23 13:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? If so, I'm sure you've already talked about kids and both already had had your std tests. So whichever you decide. Are you single or just in a short term relationship, then "condoms" ... no matter what, even for oral-sex (yes STD can be transmitted that way). Why are you worrying about lasting longer? It's your first time, don't you want to enjoy the moment, use a condom and keep your mind at ease and concentrating on her. "Yes" you should be worried about STDs for you and for her especially, the effects of std on a woman are worst than in men. Some STD, I'm sure you already studied on this subject, will stay with you the rest of your life... how'd you explain this to your future girlfriend or wife? You'll have more passion with protection ... without worries.
2007-02-23 13:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by 235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be really, really, dumb to not use a condom. Regardless of whether or not she says she is on the pill, ALWAYS use a condom. Many a time has a man heard I "forgot" to take my pill , now I am pregnant!! Better safe than sorry.
2007-02-23 13:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Angela C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! a condom is less effective. a condom is only 97% and the pill is 99%. You'll both be fine! for your first time, its going to be short no matter if you wear a condom or not, lol. but I suggest TROJAN RIBBED! I lost my virginity to a guy who was wearing that and DAMN it was good! You both will be fine...dont worry.
2007-02-23 13:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms arnt 100 percent safe and neither are the Pill but if you use both its better..
2007-02-23 13:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by johm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The pill is effective if it is taken daily.Always use a condom no matter what she says.Ask her if she is taking the pill everyday.Use the condom.It is effective against unwanted pregnancies.
2007-02-23 13:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by turtle_rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms are the best. You will be able to sleep at night better.
2007-02-23 13:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait till u get married..
2007-02-23 13:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by kate07 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just make her "throat the load" then...
2007-02-23 13:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Master Richard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋