Yesterday, I saw my crush at the subway station since I was commuting home from class. The thing is I saw him as was coming down the escalator and he was kinda facing my direction. When I looked at him, he had his eyes lowered and I kept walking past him since I was angry with him because he told me I was too weird to be his friend. Then I felt a wave of hurt, I almost cried as I was taking a seat on the subway. I just hope he didn't see me, but I can't say for sure. The thing is I know deep down this guy is a jerk since he only played with my feelings so I would sleep with him. I want get over him since I know he's not right for me.
2007-02-23 04:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over him he is not worthy of you. He lowered his eyes because he knows he manipulated you into having sex with him. You're 100% right he is not good enough for you it doesn't matter what he says like you're to wierd to be his friend it is just an excuse because he knows he used you. Put him and the whole experience behind you and know that he is to blame and like you said he is not right for you. If you stare at him he will lower his head and you will know that psychologically you won so every time you see him stare him down until lowers he head and you can hold your head high because you know you did nothing wrong you were just tricked by him.
2007-02-23 05:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ego is hurt, as u really loved this guy, and he hurt u badly, so it is quite normal to have these feelings. try not to let him see he got to u, keep the appearances up even if it kills u. but u know what u are one of the lucky ones, that u know and accept this jerk for who he truly is, how many poor girls stay in denial about someone. don't let his unfounded opinion of u matter, just his opinion, and he really doesn't matter does he? u will get over him, just distance yourself from him, his eyes were lowered by the way because he knows what he did to u, he knows he is a jerk deep down. good luck
2007-02-23 12:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You slept with him and he's the jerk? You don't have to do anything, you had sex with him when you see him you say hello and keep walking pretty much like you would do with anyone else you know. You don't have to make him think anything you just have to get over him. You turning your head or trying not to run into him is telling him that he has an affect on you. Let him know it means nothing to you by showing him his presence just doesn't matter. You are making him more important by trying to avoid him or by changing your behavior in any way for him.
2007-02-23 12:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and act like he doesn't exist. u did the right thing. keep it moving. don't worry about him. he saw you and was hoping you would do exactly what you did. let him know you haven't given him a second look. also be as fly as ever. date the flyiest guy and have fly a$$ kids! So do it up girl. Everytime some hurts you- u gotta step your game up so he knows he was a stepping stone not the other way around.
u gotta stay fly!
2007-02-23 12:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too sweet. and lots of jerks like to lie to sweet girls because they know a sweet girl would never go out with with jerks like them. we've all experienced jerks like these. they will get what they deserve. trust me on this.
but seriously, since you deserve more and you know you do..once u find that special man who appreciates what you have to offer, u wont care about what he thinks and will forget about him. love is euphoric and once you find someone you love, nothing else matters, you know that.
in the meantime, just do your own thing. work on school or something. do what you love, find a passion. passion is something you can do for hours but it'll feel like minutes.
what is that for you?
2007-02-23 12:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did a right thing by first figuring how to get over him because you already know better what kind of people that he is. believing someone of sincere heart won't bring you tears out of such circumstance. you can handle it now.
2007-02-23 12:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by crystal ball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not worth it, he's a jerk. Just think of it that way... he is a selfish perv who just wanted one thing from you, make sure you learn from your mistakes,
2007-02-23 12:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not good for you and the way i make them think that is by showing no emotion
2007-02-23 12:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by ibitemytounge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start treating him the way he makes u feel, u'll b ova him b4 u know it
2007-02-23 12:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by pretty black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-02-23 12:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋