My girlfriend lured me in to our relationship with words like "I'm a real freak in bed" and yet, because we accidently had a bad experience during missionary sex - and she thinks I can't do it (which is not true, I was just scared of pregnancy that night, and was not up for the task) - that she wants to break it off.
We did all kinds of other sex - oral for each other, I did oral to orgasm for her, yet she says she just wants traditional sex (me on top) - and she's rather petite.
She orgasmed on top of me, and yet still wants to break the relationship over this one, missionary sex issue (and won't agree to another round, so I could show her).
How about it. Can a woman be happy with all kinds of sexual pleasure? What kinds?
2007-02-23 04:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by syquest 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Breaking up over a sex position is completely ridiculous. So perhaps there are other issues she's not telling you about and is simply blaming it on the sex.
However, if it's different positions you are looking for, look up some Kama Sutra. And all women are different. Some women like it to be more monotonous and traditional, while some people are more into variety. You just have to get to know your woman more...
But more importantly, I think you need to ask her what the REAL reason for breaking it off would be. Because I really don't think breaking up over missionary is really a rational decision. Best wishes!
2007-02-23 04:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica La La Leigh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she is really a sex freak just like she claims. I think she was just with you for sex. And I guess you were not up to her standards.
If you really want to get back to her, then I suggest you manage to get her somewhere you can have sex again, and once there, give her some rough treatment. She probably wants a guy that can get her good, and don’t be weak.
I might be wrong, but you should be able to tell if she would like that or not as you know her already. But for my own experience, when a girl acts like that, she is into guys that are strong and not afraid of anything and can have good sex and be on top of things… literally!
Otherwise, just forget about her and move on. Maybe she is not good for you after all.
Good luck, and if you decide to get her again, make sure you send her to heaven that night, otherwise, she is for sure going to dump you for good.
Have fun!
2007-02-23 13:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should lose this chick. To answer your question yes women can be happy with all kinds of sexual pleasures. Seems like she is just using this as an excuse to break things off with you. It is perfectly understandable that you would concerned about pregnancy and that she should be too. Seems to me that you did everything you could do other than risk the chance of pregnancy to please this girl. If she doesn't want to give you another shot while you are using protection then find someone else.
2007-02-23 12:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by gasnshngrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you see that she was only with you for the sex and nothing else
2007-02-23 12:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(I'm answering this question to the Mr. Softee jingle)...Just bang her how she wants it, Limpy
2007-02-23 14:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by kingzummo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common sense:she's with u to have sex and nothin' else.
2007-02-23 13:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy_Mamita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋