I went out with a girl for eight months and i always had to kiss her and not vice versa. Eventually I got irritated and confronted her about it and she said that she didn't realize, she just thought I was suppose to make the first move because I was the guy. Ever since then I got uneasy everytime we kissed. Who the hell said a girl can't kiss a guy after 8 months? Don't girls realize that guys eventually get uneasy this way?
2007-02-23 04:29:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girl is nuts. I make the first move almost every time!!!!
2007-02-23 04:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by The PUNK Goddesssss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm Nope we don't realize!! LOL.. Well yeah I think it's her issue there, not going your way to kiss, by now. Sounds like she maybe is Uneasy.
Since you brought it up, I can see why it is makin you Uncomfy, with the whole kissing thing.
Doubt things will go over well, for a while,, BUT if you feel a Lot for her, then maybe she'll pick up on this an start to reach out to you!!??
Good luck
2007-02-23 04:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by GBabes333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This proves that the law of supply and demand is most definitely not restricted to business and the economy.
There are more guys out there looking for women than women looking for guys.
Because of this, guys are nearly always expected to make at least the first move. For some guys, this can be unnerving.
Unfortunately, this is the way it goes...
2007-02-23 04:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Think. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are brought to believe that the guy makes the move. Otherwise, we're called "promiscuous, wild, sluts" etc.
Although, after 8 months you'd think she'd be comfortable enough with you to make an advance. Bummer Dude.
2007-02-23 04:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shrug... Either help her learn what it is you want from the relationship or stay ticked off at her (and yourself it sounds like)
Alot of women are taught from a younger age not to be aggressive and it carries over.. while men are taught to get out there.. be aggressive.. take what you want.. yadda yadda yadda..
Who knows man.. she might be shy when it comes to kissing... but the shy/reserved ones are ALWAYS the freaks in the sack man.. GL
2007-02-23 04:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Prof. Timpo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a cultural thing. Men usually initiate eye contact and any physical interaction with women.
2007-02-23 04:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by peskylisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wen i first go out wit a lad i let him make da first move but dats lyk 4 2weeks not 8 months she must be nuts.
2007-02-23 04:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by megakimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are this way. The first time my girl and I had sex, she ripped my boxers right off, grabbed my member and shoved it in. Sorry, I didn't want to get to detailed. Maybe she don't like you that much.
2007-02-23 04:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the girl should kiss you after 8 months i mean come on.
maybe she doesnt like you as much as you think?
2007-02-23 04:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by the.journey.is.the.reward. C.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another girl friend. Believe me we are not all like that. I like going first!
2007-02-23 04:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋