How do I get over this guy??
I've liked this guy for *over two years* and thought I was over him. I was over him but it seems...I'm not. As much as I know it's just infatuation and I know that he's a jerk just like your typical college guy, I see him often and, honestly, he's hot! and don't want to like him any more. He's not worth my attention and affection.
How do I get over him?
(I can't get another guy in order to forget about this guy b/c there are no other guys that really catch my interest to the degree that he does. Plus I'm shy and not easy so guys just don't go for me, really)
HELP!
2007-02-23 03:42:41 · 7 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dunno i am in the position to give u an advice because im on the process too of getting over an ex, but let me tell you this, there's no one who can help you but yourself. If you really want to get over him, then just feel it. Don't fight your feelings. Soon you'll get over him. Think about why he's not worth your attention and affection. Think positively that you'll soon meet someone who's much worthy of love and affection. It's difficult to forget someone especially in my case, I have convinced myself that I want him to be my husband but things don't always happen the way we wanted it to be. Trust the higher power that He has something/someone in store for you. He will reveal that when the time is right. Trust His plan. Enjoy this season of your life.
2007-02-23 03:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Camilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What other things interests you? Find a new hobbie. Something you always wanted to you but never gotten around to doing it. The new hobbie will take up so much of your time, you'll have to get over this guy. Good luck.
2007-02-23 11:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, you split up for a reason. You know he's a jerk, but lust and loneliness can be hard to reason with. Figure out what makes you attractive towards the opposite sex, and thrive on that. (Confidence, wit, etc) You have to be happy with yourself (easier said than done I know) Once you are, then someone will catch your eye, and you'll catch his.
2007-02-23 11:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Involve urself in a productive activity stop wanting to make urself happy try making others happy i mean it do some volunteer stuff od do ur assignments early keep urself busy itll help dull that wanting the bad boy thing
2007-02-23 11:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find an interest to occupy your time.
Keep busy.
Volunteer for needy kids.
If you feel that you are doing good in the world, you'll have less time to worry about a guy.
Also, love is respect... if you can't respect someone, you can't "love" them. Look at his nature, see him for who he really is, not just the "hot" outside.
2007-02-23 11:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should get over him if thats the way u feel about him. wut u should do is go out party with your friends go to clubs enjoy yourself cause eventually when u go party someguy will come up and talk to you really it will happen but till then you should go enjoy your life of being single go with your friends thats all you got to do he will leave your mind
2007-02-23 11:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by R34P3R619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-23 11:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋