Now don't get me wrong, I love the guy but it is a major step. Would be an amazing experience though. Any opinions greatly received. Thanks.
2007-02-23 03:40:00 · 35 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have no ties then yes go for it - like you said it will be an experience and you have nothing to lose
2007-02-23 03:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in Brazil and now I live in the US....from experience, I would say that you should go there and check out the scene if this is a good place for you to stay and if you will adapt to this new culture, language, weather, etc. My parents and I moved from Chile in the late 70's, and eventhough both countries are located in South America, we had some huge challenges during our adaptation process.
My advice is for you not to be impulsive, go there and check out the scene, then you decide what to do. Think about the following things:
where are you going to work? study? are you planning to take some portuguese classes? do you know the language? what are you doing with your stuff, furniture, etc in your country? you need to think about all these things, including...what if things don't work out? do you have some backup money to come back?
Going to Brazil for a vacation it's absolutely great...you will have fun, eat the best foods, dance, and meet the nicest people on Earth, but to live there it's a different thing....Brazil it's a third world country with a very high crime rate, poverty and corruption. There is a lot of competition to go to college (unless it's a private university and it's $$$$), and competition for good jobs. Think all those things before you make this huge step in your life.
Good luck!
2007-02-23 03:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always said if you ever get the chance to travel in your life time ... take it ... the experience is worth everything ... you get to see a whole new World ... different people ... different ways of living ... I think it really makes you think ... Wow ... the World doesn't revolve around just my life ... I think it's really cool to see how other people live, love, have fun, drive, sing ... every place is special in it's own way ... I'd give my truck up just to visit Brazil ... I say GO FOR IT ... if things don't work out between the two of you make sure you have a plan " B " ... so you don't get stranded in a whole new country alone ... if you have a strong side to you and know you can handle whatever " God " or who ever you believe in gives to us ... have fun ... be spontaneous ... Viva la Brazil ... lol ... ok that was lame ... lol ... !
2007-02-23 03:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no if you and him are not married or you have not been together that long it's not a good idea because if you break up and you are living with him and he puts you out you may in up stuck in Brazil until you can get back home.Or if you and him are getting married i say go if you love him and want to be with him in Brazil and you should talk to some family and friends and get there take on this.
2007-02-23 04:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Demetra P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take a trip to Brazil and stay there for about a month to see if it's something you want to do before you actually take the leap and move in for good. You also have to consider if there are any family or friends that you'll miss to the point where you may feel like you want to go back. If you feel like you can handle it though, maybe you could move to Brazil and take vacations every once in awhile to see your family and friends. Either way, I wouldn't recommend moving in before trying it out first and seeing how you like it.
2007-02-23 03:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes, yes GOOOO!!!! Brazilians are extremely friendly people and really nice. Take it as a new experience in life, plan it for a short term like 3 months and if you really like it, move there. I am thinking to move to ASIA too. I am a new yorker and i had enough of New York already and i love asia. So i am looking for a stable job in Asia. Good luck.
2007-02-23 03:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Cesar S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go unless you know,... relationships laws,.. (incidentally, how long have you been going out with him?),.. what he's really after, (kids? then find out about custody laws etc), there was a recent programme about how one woman went to Australia to live with her Aussie BF, she was British, had a kid with her BF, then after the relationship broke down she couldn't leave the country because her son was born there, and she had to stay,.. (Aussie laws), as a single mum. Her family in the UK couldn't help her either, so in fact she was nothing short of 'stuffed',.. be careful would be my best advice. Sorry for the lengthy response.
2007-02-23 03:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by wildimagination2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go if it were me. Going to Brazil would be absolutely amazing. I think that it would be a great experience and you'd have tons of fun, you should definitely go for it. Best of Luck with whatever way you decide to go.
2007-02-23 03:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly loved him, you'd be packing right now...period. If I were you I'd examine your conscience but if really have to ask us if you should go, I think you already have your answer.
P.S. I could be wrong here but it seems that you're more excited experiencing Brazil rather than moving to Brazil with your boyfriend.
2007-02-23 03:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-21 10:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! if you really love him I would say yes! Thus, you should try out going to Brazil for a couple of weeks to see how you two get along living together!!!
2007-02-23 03:45:36 · answer #11 · answered by chiquiz08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋