i was with my guy for 7 years..i was in it for life pretty much..i was always there for him through so much..more than anyone would have to go through and yet i stayed by his side....i thought he really loved me..even all my friends would say things like wow hes going to marry you..and then out of the blue behind my back he started seeing someone else and once things started working out for them he dumped me...that was a couple months ago and now their in love and happy and the whole works...i did so much for him and im the one left in the dark....hes making this new girl so happy...where is karma..does it even exist?
2007-02-23 03:23:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, it exists but it doesn't work in the immediate time frame. We each have to take our lessons away from life's events and know in our hearts that we did our best. You did your best for him but in the future you should learn not to let someone walk all over you. The relationship needs to be reciprocal and if you're the one giving and never receiving than it's not love. If he loved you he would have returned your attentions. The only thing you can do is move on and try not to let someone take advantage of you again. Somewhere down the road you'll hear his story. Maybe he'll end up marrying her and she will end up being some evil harpy that controls his every move. Or maybe he'll love her as much as you loved him and she will cheat on him. You never can tell.
2007-02-23 03:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I SO know what you mean! My ex sits on her butt all day, collects from the taxpayers, Child support, her friends, and her mother. She has done some really evil stuff but yet she always comes out smelling like a rose. I'm just waiting and wondering...when is Karma going to take effect? It's like the more wrong she does, the better off she is.
Maybe Karma is delayed. Then when everyone has quit hurting and thinks its all over...BLAM!
2007-02-23 03:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It exists and mainly works when u move on with ur life and forget that person completely dont listen when pple talk about him act disisntrested even if u are forget him he will also get shocked when he sees how fast uv recovered and dont go into the arms of another in a hurry take ur time ensure u have fun nothing he will hate more than seeing u happy
2007-02-23 03:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh it exists and just because his happy now does not mean he will be forever, but don't wish anything bad on no one you need to live and let it go. Life takes turns no one understands. You did your part and see that relationship as a learning experience take whats good of it, change what was bad in your future relationships good luck and remember let go and hate free.
2007-02-23 03:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seven years is a long time to devote yourself to someone you aren't married to. Believe me, if that guy really loved you he would have married you way sooner than the 7 years. Unfortunately, I think he stayed with you until the 'right' one came along. Truly unfair to you. Forget karma. You made a bad choice by staying with him that long without a committment.
2007-02-23 03:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget him it is over. Your Karma is to take the Freedom you have been given.I think you sacrificed to much for him.He didn't appreciate it .Do not be bitter but look forward and make new plans for yourself you deserve to be happy, make new friends, treat yourself to a new wardrobe, hairdo, join a club, meet new people.Enjoy yourself instead of torturing yourself. Think what can I do ? Not, what is he doing ?
2007-02-23 03:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
karma exists but it usually takes longer than 2 months. sounds like you didn't see the signs or maybe they were not there. he didn't respect you at all! don't be sad about it ...you deserve much better. you need to find someone who will appreciate the things you do for them!
2007-02-23 03:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by KJ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky you are out if he was not happy. If you trulely love him then let it go. He's happy, be happy for him and realize your true partner is still out there and its not him. Take what you've learned and good memories and throw the rest away-be bigger than yourself and your true love will find you!
2007-02-23 03:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the bookstore and buy "It's Called a Breakup Because it's Broken." Read it. Trust me.
2007-02-23 03:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, karma does exist. maybe it was a blessing in disguise. you might not realize it now, but you will see he wasn't right for you. every one who hurt others will get theirs in the end.
2007-02-23 03:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋