2007-02-23 03:12:50 · 14 answers · asked by esthellar28 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out and meet new people, afterall its just a crush it not like you are in love with this person!!! Get urself occupied with other things, go to a gym and work out, go to a club and dance your heart away!!! Get drunk and cry it out!!! It will be ok Hunny!!! Good Luck!
2007-03-02 06:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes time. If it really is just a crush, one day u will get over it.
2007-02-23 11:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...when i want to get over a crush i either find someone better or i just act like the person i have a crush on isnt there until i dont like him like that anymore. I know it sounds mean but it works.
If u ever need more dating advice or if one of ur friends needs it my e-mail address is Darklife_of_love@yahoo.com
Im willing to help anyone that wants help on dating.
2007-02-23 11:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by darkness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over a crush or being dumped, is to move on with your life. My all time favorites are gettting a new do, my nails done, taking a class at the local college (where I can meet more eligible people who like things I like to do), getting together with friends I may have let sit on the back burner while I was pursuing my crush, go to a movie, the mall out for a drink with friends (if old enough and not to pity drink either, or get sloppy drunk....nothing worse than crying in your cups over the broken heart in a bar .....bad for the emotional health and for the view others will have into your psyche) with friends in groups. I like to do things that improve me mentally, physically and emotionally while I heal and also put me in a place to meet someone more appropiate. And put me in my best light. I once had a bf who was an engineer, he was kinda boring, but we got along ok, one day he dumps me for a nurse, and decides I need to know all this, how much he loves her, how much better she is than me in the job department and so on.....my butt was dragging, but I went home, cried a little and made an appointment with the hairdresser for the next day. While getting my hair and nails done, I ran into a friend of mine husband who had run into one of his single buddies and we chatted a little while my friend was finishing getting her hair done and I went home. I got a call a little while later, would I like to come for dinner with her, her husband and his friend at some local swank eatery. Why sure! I wanted to show off my new do and that "friend" was pretty hot too, a pilot or something wasn't he? Oh yeah! We met at my friends place and went to dinner from there.....oh was it ever nice, he was such a gentleman, thought I was the bomb and so on. We hit it off and got to be very close till he was tranferred to another state. The best thing was, running into my old bf with the new one all hugged up with me, while he had his plain jane nursey honking at him from the parking lot of said swank eatery, while he drooled over what he took a pass on. Obviously, my pilot friend thought I was good enough to take out, and with a new do, I felt fantastic, and I wasn't sitting around at home crying over the idiot. Nope.....never let moss grow under your feet when getting over ANYONE. EVER! Get busy, if you have gained a few pounds, go to the gym, walk, if your have let your hair show its roots, get to the salon for a fix and a facial. If you are bored or boring, get in a night class at something you love (art, chess, math....whatever) and meet some new people. Go to a wine tasting event.....but whatever you do, don't sit there and wallow.....its bad for your emotional well being to wallow in your misery and does nothing to improve you. So get busy my dear and soon, you will be sayinng ":what crush? What was I thinking?". Good luck!
2007-02-23 11:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicken Noodle soup, watching a 3 hour chick flick like "Fried Green Tomatos" or something like that, and then, just randomly picking out any guy and flirting with them and giving them a free shot at you for the taking for that day. If he doesn't make the move on you, give him your number, but, then, when he calls the next day, tell him that he was just a rebound so that you could get over your crush.
2007-02-23 11:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Every time you think of the crush, try to imagine a horrible mental picture, like seeing them with the person you hate most, doing unspeakable things. It might help?
2007-02-23 11:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by not4u2c_yet 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out meet new people but don't date for a while just see what's out there.
2007-03-02 23:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by nutty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply look for other people. There are plenty of other guys and chikks out there. It may take time, but you will come to realize it was worthwhile.
2007-02-23 11:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, hav u gone out adn he dumped you? or ure just trying to forget u ever liked him. if its the second oen, think of all the really nicer other availible guys adn try to lik them.
2007-03-02 18:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to your crush & ask him "are you over me"
happy to help! (it helped with me)
2007-02-23 11:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by errrika. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋