I have never chatted or entered a chat room. My first time going into a chat room and i met a girl by randomly clicking a name, we chat for a few weeks,she is from the same city as me (chicago). we both felt a connection, chatting conversation stklarted to turn into phone conversation that lasted up to 8 hours. i was feeling like i was falling in love with a girl i never seen in person. I finally did fall in love, and she did to, we fell in love, i asked her out but still, we never met or saw each other in person, we exchanged pics but thats it(the most beautiful girl ive ever seen). and i knew a few causins of hers from school but i never met her. her mom moved her to california and she'll be coming back this summer, the thing is we still together, we are still boy friend and girl friend. our relationship is great, its beautiful, we get butterflies wen ever we tell each other that we love one another. it feels beautiful. our relation ship has lasted 2 yrs and yet i still havnt see
2007-02-23 03:00:45 · 15 answers · asked by g_ramirezjr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't give you an honest opinion since i don't have one. I think you two should meet face to face and it sounds like this may happen soon. Wait and see what happens. best of luck
2007-02-23 03:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this is so beautiful but I must admit, it is strange.
2 years and you have not had a moment with her, in the same town? Stranger still.
It is infatuation my friend. Nothing like a face to face meeting and have a deeper understanding of each other. If you still love her, power to you. When you meet, things may not be like what it seems.
Perhaps you both are afraid to meet. You just want it to last this way forever.
I do not see a serious question in there, though. That's OK.
Our opinion does not matter. You are now old enough to make the decisions.
At least, when you met her online, she was 16 and you were 17. You both were underaged. You did not have sex and mess up both your lives. That's a big plus.
You are in love. Hope you will be happy.
2007-02-23 11:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you've been dating for 2 years, and you've never seen one another other than pictures? Although it might be true, it sounds like this could be a play. I watched a story a while back about a child that was too sick to leave his house so he would call different stars and befriend them and ask for money. It turned out that the "child" was actually a single woman with nothing better to do. So, she made up a child, found some pictures of a random boy, and began calling people. I think that if you have never met her or seen her, there's a possibility that this is not as true as you think it is. I mean, there's always a possibility, but it is highly unlikely.
2007-02-23 11:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Cori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there's a question there somewhere...right?
You live in the same city and have NEVER met after two years? Some thing smells fishy to me. Tell me, was her mom moving her to California RIGHT around the time you two were supposed to meet up?
I don't think she's being completely honest with you here.
You're young; move on. Meet someone at school or at a dance.
2007-02-23 11:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am darlin two years without a kiss or a hug or in person!
r you sure thats a relationship or jus a nightmare .she cud be horning you left right an center .I think its time to meet ! dont u !i mean two of you are two big old hard back adults ! but if you really think its love then fire away!i jus hope you meet her soon cuz a picture is jus a picture you could be talking to a man for all you no!
be careful an pray you people dony marry on line an maybe have a animated child there too! bydway when you said WE get butterflies are you sure you arent just tlkin about U!
2007-02-23 11:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in the best spot you could be in! Your living the fantasy! Great! Enjoy it, because I promise you, if you get together and start dating on the regular, the fantasy will become reality and start to suck! Trust me, enjoy the feeling, remember the feeling, because you never love like you do when your young and stupid. (Don't be offended because we were all young and stupid at one point, and trust me if you and her are still depending on your mothers for shelter your still young and stupid, but that's OK) Anyway, the funny part is she probably has a dude in Cali who she really dates. But that's got nothing to do with you. Just keep it up and enjoy because real love is hard work. Until you have to combine incomes to pay rent, utilities, pay bills, take vacations, pay car notes, support households, then just enjoy the ride
BUT - Don't take it too serious (A word of advice)
2007-02-23 11:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is only my opinion but I don't believe in Internet dating. What you feel I'm sorry to say is only infatuation (again only my opinion). When I was in high school I had that same sensation for a guy I was chatting with on the Internet too. I got butterflies and everything. And we actually talked on the phone too. But in high school again it was only an infatuation, no more.
2007-02-23 11:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by B.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Its not love.
2. Your 19 years old, your too young to be in a relationship
3. Get your life in order, go to college, get a job, move out of your parents home. Then look at falling in love and finding that one true love.
2007-02-23 11:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm... i guess just as long as her pictures are really her.... and be prepared for her to possibly be missing an arm or a leg or some other mutation or whatever, you never really know... but sure, good relationships that last happen online all the time, best of luck.
2007-02-23 11:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥Dominatrix♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough situation. Buy a plane ticket and move to California! If you really feel strongly enough about her you shouldn't let anything get in your way!
2007-02-23 11:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by FakeFrowns 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋