well i was writting a letter to my boyfriend and so i was writting that i wanted to break up. well i really don't want to but thats what i have to do. and so yesterday i called him and was talking to him and he asked me the same thing if we wanted to wait on our relation ship. and i started to cry because just talking about it makes me feel like a part of me is dieing. i really love him but its for the best for him. well i have to break up with him because i can never see him and i want him to be with some who can always be there for him to hugg him cuddle with him and ect.... the things i can not do. well i love him with all my heart and i just don't want him to worry. because i have to many problems. because my mom is always abusing me and so yeah i really love him i just don't know what to do.
2007-02-23 02:52:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not talking my anger out on him but its just i don't want to hurt him i love him i don't want to cause anything i want him to be with a girl whom can be there with him because i can't and i think thats hurting him.i don't want him to feel lonely
2007-02-23 03:03:38 · update #1
Ok...first of all if your mother is abusing you you need to get away from her as harsh as that may sound. Second, does he feel the same that you do? I mean does he think that it's better if the two of you break up? Just because you don't see him isn't necessarily grounds for the break up. But if your problems are so deep and it interferes with you being happy with him then I think breaking up is a good idea. Sometimes it's things like this that can bring couples closer together. Don't forget that being a girlfriend/boyfriend means more than just kissing. It's means being friends as well. Talk to him. See if he agrees with you.
2007-02-23 03:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by imperfectsimplicity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him why are you breaking up with him? Think of the hurt your causing him. Why are you taking out your issues with your mom out on him? Sounds like you need to find a good therapist and work your issues out, instead of playing with this guy's emotions. He'll only take so much before he decides that your not worth it and leave. Get help before its too late.
2007-02-23 10:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Then turn your mom into the cops. No one deserves to be abused. If you don't want to call the cops, call this number: 1-800-4-A-CHILD. It's a hotline to talk to people about your situation and get advice.
2007-02-23 11:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by FakeFrowns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u luv him tat much stay wit him but if u really cant try finding sum1 else there is sum1 out there for evryone m,ayb he just wasnt the rite person and sumtime u have to think about people before urself and get help if ur mom abuses u!
2007-02-23 10:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you should report you mum to the authorities if she is abusing you. The abusing could effect you in later life. If you love this guy and he loves you then you can make it work no matter what.
Why cant you see him?
2007-02-23 10:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Blink-Monkey-Blink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were meant to be together, then you are. If not, then you're not. You have to think of whats best for YOU. Its YOU who will be hurting. And I'm sure you dint want to go Thru years worth of pain. think your choice over before you make any MAJOR decisions.
2007-02-23 10:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mizz Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really sad. But you did the right thing. If you really love something let it free.
2007-02-23 10:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by iSneaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him,so why do you want to break up?Talk to him about your situation with your mom. I am sure he will understand.
2007-02-23 10:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you his mom? who are you too make a decision that you think is best for him? be yourslef, no matter how f u c k e d up that may be and let him make decisions about his own life...
2007-02-23 10:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be friends until you can be together more then get back together:D good luck!
2007-02-23 10:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by tls_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋