I have never chatted or entered a chat room. My first time going into a chat room and i met a girl by randomly clicking a name, we chat for a few weeks,she is from the same city as me (chicago). we both feelt a connection, chatting conversation started to turn into phone conversation that lasted up to 8 hours. i was feeling like i was falling in love with a girl i never seen in person. I finally did fall in love, and she did to, we fell in love, i asked her out but still, we never met or saw each other in person, we exchanged pics but thats it. and i knew a few causins of hers from school but i never met her. her mom moved her to california and she'll be coming back this summer, the thing is we still together, we are still boy friend and girl friend. our relationship is great, its beautiful, we get butterflies wen ever we tell each other that we love one another. it feels beautiful. our relation ship has lasted 2 yrs and yet i still havnt seen her in person. wat do you think?
2007-02-23 02:50:40 · 10 answers · asked by g_ramirezjr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's time to meet for real, in person. I don't think you can really know a person until you have touched (in sexual and non sexual ways) her. Same goes for her. Two years is a long time. If you live in the same city, what kept you guys from meeting? Based on what you wrote, you did ask her out. Do you know what kept you two from meeting each other? You two should meet, face to face that is.
2007-02-23 03:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. Happened to me! I first chatted with him 5 years ago. And we recently started a serious relationship. And i love him.. We met for the first time about 2 years ago. The test will come once you meet. Yes, the mental connection is there, but if you are IN LOVE, then once you're face to face you'll really see. I wish you both the best of luck. Hopefully it meant to be.
2007-02-23 11:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mizz Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that sounds strange.
All I can think of right now is she is probably in a relationship already and she doesnt want you to know so you wont end it.or she has really low self esteem along with being extremly shy. You should ask her why you two have not met in person....see what her answer is...from there if she still doesnt agree to meet then its all up to you to be with a girl you will never be able to kiss or touch for the rest of your life.
2007-02-23 11:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is good. I mean you like her for who she is and not for what she looks like. I would worry about you. I hope you are honest with her and truly like her for who she is. How old are you guys? Maybe you should one of these days take a trip to where she lives and meet her and her family. I think its great and if you are happy well don't worry about the long distance issue . What matters is that you are both happy and commited to each other.
2007-02-23 11:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem if you really think that life works electronically. Love is personal, get a life and figure it out, friends are important in life also, make one of yours.
2007-02-23 10:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by johnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there, because long distance relationships are fun and make you know each other more personally because you can say things that you might not be able to say face to face.. you better meet her this time.
2007-02-23 10:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is crazy and after 2 years you have never seen her. this is definitely strange . why dont you fly to california and meet her in person.
2007-02-23 10:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet already!!!! You need to see if you still have that chemistry IN PERSON.
2007-02-23 11:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Go see her unless you're not able to drive yet!
2007-02-23 10:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. I think you can write a book about it haha
Good luck :)
2007-02-23 10:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋