Well, i guess i have been wid him so long (16 months), dat i am USED to him, i have no1 els, hes so ovaprotective ova me, dat i cnt do anything-i dnt evn have girlfriends anymore...dey all left me, and naw hate me.
Oh HE ALSO STARTED EMAILIN A GIRL BEHIND MY BAK AND TOLD HER HE FANCIED HER, BUT HE HAD A GF!!!!
am i a pushover 4 not leaving him?
bdw - im 17 so i have plenty of life ahead of me
2007-02-23 02:38:58 · 12 answers · asked by *Seksi Aleski* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So what is the question? I think you should find someone new. Call up some of your old girlfriend and apologize or maybe even try to find new friends to help you get away. No one should have to be over protective unless he is insecure. If he trusted you he wouldnt need to act the way he does.
2007-02-23 02:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by lethalx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunni, in your heart do u feel it's right? By the sounds of it he has ruled your life! It isn't fair on you! I mean making your friends hate you isn't exactly what he should be doing! Does he have his friends? If so then how come he gets to have them and you don't? Look at the big picture sweetie - your unhappy when he's around because he treats you the wrong way and when he's gone i think you just feel lonely! Why don't you ask for some time apart! Get some friends, go out to the cinema or something and get that part of your life back! It's probably what's making your relationship so miserable! You need to spend time with other people! If that doesn't work i think you should dump him!
2007-02-23 03:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave him, like someone said by the sounds of things you like the sound of love, but don’t really feel it anymore.
If he has been emailing some other girl saying he fancies her, then this isn’t a good thing.
When I was seeing an old ex I left all my friends behind, 7 years later I had to make new friends. Yes its hard, but you can do it. You just have to put yourself out there.
You'll be fine, keep your head up, and you can do it.
Yours still so young, just do what feels right.
Good luck
X
2007-02-23 03:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do have plenty of life ahead of you. If he was really into you, he wouldn't give you a reason to doubt him. It's not a relationship if you don't feel anything when you're with him. You're not a pushover, you're just young. Break up with him, and get your friends back. Make new friends. This guy is not worth your time. You're 17, you'll find Mr. Fabulous in College.
2007-02-23 02:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like your relationship is over and its time to move on. The only reason you feel something for your boyfriend when you're not with him is because you're lonely, not because you want him. Give your girlfriend a call and start seeing them again, apologise for everything and have fun with your girls! You wont feel lonely anymore then and you'll forget your boyfriend too I promise. You need to break things off with him asap. He's being disrespectful to you by emailing another girl. Time to move on hun, good luck.
2007-02-23 02:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya at 17 you still do have plenty of life ahead!! ya i would say dump this guy.!! if your friends are leaving you because of him. i would think that should tell you something! maybe you need to be single for a while to grow a bit. and that , i think is a good thing so ya my advise is to be single and grow cuz it sounds like this guy is just keeping you down and you dont want to get into a bad habit of dating abusive men.
2007-02-23 02:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by msmcleod_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I want to say is that poem sound so pure and full of love. Is very beautiful indeed. Love is pain, everyone knows it, but if u will save in ur heart the goods that love gives u, u will be rich in heart and soul.
2016-03-29 08:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you answered your own question in your last sentence' bdw-im 17 so i have plenty of life ahead of me.." so whats the problem... let him go with the other girl, you dont want him actually
2007-02-23 02:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Your relationship has grown cold. You'll find someone else really soon esp. because you are so young. You'll be fine.
2007-02-23 02:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are more in love with being in love than with this person...i.e. you LOVE the feeling of love, and you probably also LOVE the fantasy of love, but your reality stinks. Move on with your life.
2007-02-23 02:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋