I am 17 years old and about 4years ago my dad got married. Before he got married we were really close nothing could change it he had lots of girlfriends but i was the first girl in is life. well that was up to the point he married Joyce. She used the money my dad had put away for my collage on there wedding.
About a 1 1/2 years ago i tryed moving in with them because my mom was moving 3hrs away from where i wanted to be so i stayed there with my dad. then March of 06 i could not take it i never got to do anything but go to school and work i didnt even get to go to church. so i called my mom and she came and got me. my dad was made told me i was a peace of crap and i was going to end up in Jail and i wasnt his kid anymore that he wants nothing to do with me its been a Year and i have not talk to my dad. Both our b-days are Dec 19 i texted him saying happy b-day and he said nothing back. Its gottin better but i still cry at lest once a week. What can i do to get over it?
2007-02-23 02:32:47 · 2 answers · asked by Jewel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all your father is wrong for doing this to you, you are his child and he should NEVER put a woman befor his kids that's just wrong no matter what..I would have to say that the woman he married is putting stuff in his head unfortunately hun their is nothing you can do about it, hell come around sooner or later and realize what an a** he has been to his child and he will feel like sh*t...
Their is nothing i can really think of to help you get over it quicker and i really don't think their is a way to get over it faster..Best healer is time. Give it time and it will start getting easier.
My father was wonderful however my mother left him when i was 10 and after that my father stopped seeing us, calling us ect my brother and i were devistated but over time it got easier granted it did take alot of time but it did get easier..
I look back now and am glad my father wasn't around he turned into a big heroin addict, drunk and got involved with gangs and has been in and out of jail since i was 10 i am now 20. The last time i talked to my father he stole 400 dollars from me for drugs and stood my little brothers up when he promised to visit..We have even tried helping him out and giving him a place to stay to get his life back on track and he ditches us and decided to go back to jail and drugs....
Just keep in mind that things can be much worse.
I wish you the best of luck
2007-02-23 02:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a time in life when you have to move out from your family... he has his life to and can't dedicate it to just you
2007-02-23 10:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by nocureforthispain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋