hey guys
Iam feeling very depressed at the moment as I have no lovers or boyfriends at the mo and I have been told iam ugly and fat
2007-02-23 02:23:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You ARE NOT uglyl and fat. You are Beatuiful. And dont let no one make you think different. Who the hell are they to judge. ??
Oh and the boyfriend thing, love i got one and you know what, it aint great. Just look forward to the summer and all its lovely hot long days and chill, thank your lucky stars you aint got a boyfriend to argu over pathetic things and get stressed. Make your money girl and enjoy your self. xx
2007-02-23 02:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by london lady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whoever told you you are ugly and fat is an pig and you shouldn't pay any attention. I know thats easier said than done but remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we are all attracted to people for different reasons. It makes me mad when people put other people down, its not fair and its not right.
There is someone for everyone out there, I guess you just haven't met them yet, you will we all do eventually. If you are happy with yourself then sod anyone who thinks differently and if you aren't happy with yourself then think about making small changes one step at a time. Losing weight is a personal choice and can be done without studip diets, I know I have lost 3 stone in a year and I did it by eating heathly and only when I was hungry and I don't eat until I am full only satisfied. Listen to your body and eat slowly so you can tell when to stop, so many people over eat because the food is there in front of you. Exercise is good as well, even if you just go for a fast walk for 20 mins a day it will make all the difference not only to losing weight but to how you feel mentally. Once you make the choice to change things it will happen so quickly. Keep your chin up and focus on how you feel about yourself and not others, they don't know what they are talking about they don't live in your head. Good luck and go for it you won't ever turn back.
2007-02-23 10:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never met you and i can tell you for sure that you are not ugly. I can tell you right now that when i look at a person i always see the beauty in them. maybe you are overweight, but that does NOT make you an ugly person. having no BF or lovers does not make you who you are. I don't have a BF right now either and i am really fine with it. we have to love and like ourselves. do not let those people get to you. I know that it sounds corny, but what really matters is whats inside. If you are not happy being overweight that try to ex cerise and eat more healthy. That's what i am doing now. Be around people who encourage you and not tear you down. You special (everyone is).
2007-02-23 10:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, whoever told you that you're fat & ugly is not worth your time or attention so just ignore them!
You should try not to judge your own self worth based on whether or not you have a boyfriend or a lover & learn to be happy with yourself. Obviously this is easier said than done but it's hard to be happy with someone else when you can't be happy with yourself, you can start relying too much on the other person & sometimes even driving them away.
2007-02-23 10:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkle80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever called you ugly and fat, clearly have there own problems and so to be honest I wouldnt even give it a second thought. You need to start be feeling better about yourself, Everyone has special qualities that makes them who they are, you are no different. Instead of feeling sad look at what you have going for you and focus on that, start builidng you your confidence and belive in you, You will be supprised how many people come flocking. I took some time out and deliberatly stayed single, simply beacuse I wanted to find me, going from one relationship to another, I didnt know myself. Now I am more of myself and a lot happer in me! Hope you start to feel better soon
2007-02-23 11:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to people, they're the last you should be thinking or caring about.
About not having a guy, guys aren't everything and they shouldn't be the reason you feel unhappy, girl, not worth it!
Your time will come you've just gotta wait for it, yeah it may seem like it's taking forever for that one guy to come but you just have to wait.
Looks aren't everything and some guys don't go for the looks but personality, you've just gotta wait for him.
Chill and enjoy life, good luck and cheer up!
2007-02-23 10:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by lunar_eclipse142 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The jerks that told you that don't deserve your affection. Keep your head up, try and focus on yourself and the things that you enjoy, and then things will have a way of working themselves out. I know it doesn't feel that way now (trust me, I feel that way sometimes-I'm also single) but if you really think about it rationally, you wouldn't want to be with someone who's less-than-well-suited for you just to "be with someone." Well, hope this helps you and that you find your prince charming soon :)
2007-02-23 10:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever said you are fat and ugly are obviously either jealous are they have there own hang ups over something ! someone will come along for you soon get out more with your friends enjoy yourself ! xxxx
2007-02-23 14:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by maddie xx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperation and depression are unattractive traits - keep them hidden and you'll have a much better chance of finding a partner.
2007-02-23 10:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and i suppose those who told you are perfect i dont think so people who pull others down are not worth the bother they only comment on others becaise they are insecure themselves why dont you try and join a local club and make new friends you shouldnt try to hard to find someone just be yourself and the right man will come along good luck xx
2007-02-23 10:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by LISA J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋