Casually ask her the date she mailed your gift and say you are worried because it might have gotten lost in the mail or something......
2007-02-23 02:24:00
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answered by Love always, Kortnei 6
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If you ask, personally I think that is very bad taste. Very poor etiquette. Move on.
You will just have to mark this one up for 'lost cause'. If you do call the cousin and she makes an excuse...the probability of her need to lie (perhaps) is high due to issues, financially, etc. Creating embarassment, humiliation for her; .is that worth it? Over a gift? What about the spirit of the season? Wasn't it nice to see your family? Have cookies, hot toddies and some great laughs?
However, if she DID actually purchase you a gift...still...do not ask. Very rude. It is probable that you'll get it for your birthday this year or this Christmas; so you may get an extra present.
2007-02-23 10:49:59
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answered by Michelle_My_Belle 4
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I dont think you can without causing some rifts
Sometimes its better to keep your mouth shut instead of causing friction
how could someone forget its Christmas, and forget the gift?
sounds like she is having some financial issues
2007-02-23 10:25:48
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answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7
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I'm afraid there's not much you can do. If the gift never arrives, you have a valid reason for requesting that the family not include your cousin in next year's drawing. Sadly, your experience might be a good lesson for all involved on who shall be included in future name drawings.
2007-02-23 10:34:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Christmas is supposed to be about giving not getting.
2007-02-23 10:48:04
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answered by agbridal 2
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Im thinking you just make sure you get her next year, and 'forget' her gift.
2007-02-23 10:23:51
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answered by Andi 3
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Just ask her-tell her you think it got lost in the mail
2007-02-23 10:30:17
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answered by Baby #1 born August 2009 6
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Just forget it.
2007-02-26 03:05:18
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answered by hellenwashington 4
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She didn't forget.
2007-02-23 10:29:55
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answered by Anpadh 6
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