How do i find out if i still feel anything for the best bf i have ever had???
2007-02-23 02:14:58 · 35 answers · asked by *Seksi Aleski* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, i guess i have been wid him so long, dat i am USED to him, i have no1 els, hes so ovaprotective ova me, dat i cnt do anything-i dnt evn have girlfriends anymore...dey all left me, and naw hate me.
Oh HE ALSO STARTED EMAILIN A GIRL BEHIND MY BAK AND TOLD HER HE FANCIED HER, BUT HE HAD A GF!!!!
am i a pushover 4 not leaving him?
2007-02-23 02:26:52 · update #1
You need to forget him go out and have some fun with other boys and make some friends...never rely on one person.
2007-02-27 22:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you questioning your feelings for him? The fact that you are tells me that maybe it has run it's course. Yes,he may be the best boyfriend you've ever had-but if the spark is gone and can't be reignited,then there is no point dragging it out. Is it boredom? Or have you been sticking with him purely because it's comfortable,safe,and you're 'used to him'? Maybe time apart will do you both good and give you a chance to think if he's what you really want. But you never know,there could be someone else who treats you just as well (or better) that is better suited to you.
2007-02-23 02:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All good things come to an end.....eventually. It's quite sad, but true, especially when you're young. I'd ask myself whether there is something that you'd much rather be doing than being with your b/f right now? If the answer is yes, then your love for him may be dying. Don't rush into breaking up though. If you're just having a bad day or week, you may feel differently next week. Maybe you should ask the above question when you're actually out with him! Good luck.....
2007-02-23 02:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Starman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Sexy Alexi! How about you two ask for some mutual time apart!!! Give yourselves some time to miss one another!!! The emailing crap, that has to stop unless he will allow you to do the same!!! He is no better than you and you are no better than him!!! So who gives him the right to email anyone behind your back!! He is unfaithful waiting to happen if it hasn't happened yet!!! You better be careful and keep your eyes open!!! If you are sexually active with him, you better use protection! You just can't trust anyone these days!!! Good Luck!!
2007-03-02 06:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a long relation
anyway if you don't feel anything anymore, there's nothing left
when you are with a guy, you have to want to be there, not .wishing you were at home with your friends or doing your homework. If you do think that this is your best relation, talk to an older person with more experience about it like your mom or favorite aunt. They will know what to do and they will know what's best for you.
2007-02-23 02:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by ilovreece807 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have answered your own question you dont love him anymore, leave now before it gets complicated, but if you leave and miss him like crazy and feel you cant live without him then maybe you do love him afterall.
You dont know what you have got till its gone so try it have a break from him and see how you feel xx
2007-02-23 02:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How would you feel if he is not around? Will you be sad or you'll continue with your normal life? Is the guy cheating on you, does he love you? Go somewhere quiet with no one interference, think well about it and then you can take a decision.
2007-02-23 02:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by sheil9 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him, even if you still had feelings for him he is no good, go get your friends back and start living again, you'll soon meet someone else who is happy for you to be you and have your own interests.
2007-03-02 09:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dimples 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have to question your love or analyze it, unfortunately it just isn't there anymore. When u truly love someone there is no questioning it, u "feel" it.........when u look at them, when u touch them, and when u think of them. Think back when u did love him, and how u felt.....you will know the answer. Good luck
2007-02-23 02:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was previously in the same situation. I broke up with the guy. We were together for 15 months. He just became very annoying to me. I loved him but I wasn't 'in love' with him. Ask yourself that. I feel so much happier now that I broke up with my ex. Maybe you will to. You will have to break up with him and see how you feel. Better yet, picture your life without him and see if you can handle it like that. Good luck to you!
2007-02-23 02:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by amberlynne_2007 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋